do girls prefer?

Question

someone who pays for everything and holds doors open for them and stuff or do they find that sort of thing demeaning?? because im an old fashioned type of guy and i like to treat a lady right

Answer 1

There are very few guys out there that are old-fashioned. Any women would appreciate a man that repects her and values her.

Answer 2

With some girls they like to pay for everything so that they can show you that they are independent. I prefer a guy who opens doors for girls and who will let me take the check when I have the money and when I offer to. Guys who open the doors and pay the bill when the couple go out are the guys who deserve to have a good woman to be with and are the kind of guy who I like.

Answer 3

The doors and chivalry I would love to bits - but you paying for everything - whilst the sentiment behind it is lovely and quite rare these days - Id feel bad allowing you to pay for everything! Not because it would be demeaning - just unfair in my book! Old fashioned guys are great - just be careful not to be taken for a ride by the wrong person! xxx

Answer 4

I try my best to show each & every woman that very same courtesy & respect, along with opening car doors, getting their chair & waiting on them in any way I can. I do it because they should be treated like queens or goddesses.
I don't do it because I think they're to frail to did it on their own but out of a sheer total admiration of the fact that they have the unique ability to carry a life inside themselves for 9 months then they have to endure the pain of giving birth. Something I don't think any man would want to do.

Answer 5

An old school romantic .I don't think there is a liberated woman out there any where that wouldn't like to have a door opened for them or a chair pulled out and tucked under them on a date .Manners never go out of style . Iv learned ...That you take a woman on a date you treat her like you would treat your mother until she stops acting like your mom. and then she will let you know how she likes you to behave. I pay for the night unless the lady insists on going dutch (paying half)

Answer 6

I like to have doors held open for me, and to be treated like a lady, although unless it was the first couple of dates, I would offer to go dutch on a bill, it's not fair that the guy always has to pay when out.

Answer 7

Even in the 21st Century, some old-fashioned charm and manners never so amiss ... I hold doors open, let women sit in my seat on buses or trains etc. and am usually rewarded with a smile and a "Thank you"

It costs nothing to be nice!!

Answer 8

I like being treated like that, makes me feel special. (old fashioned too in some ways) However not the paying for stuff all the time, dutch is fine with me but an occasional treat is great makes it more special, but that goes both ways.

Answer 9

I love a gentleman to treat me like a lady! Without a shadow of a doubt. Sadly its becoming old fashioned to be good mannered and protective it seems. These LADETTES as they fondly call themselves dont know what they are missing.

Answer 10

I like to be pushed around and bullied a bit. No all the time, but just for a laugh you know. I wouldn't mind you holding the door open for me...but to really fire me up you would need to just ignore me like I'm not even with you.