They're always non-existant girls, but it's still disturbing to me. But every time he tells me he apologizes. Anywayz...so do you think that it's his brain's way of saying I'm not good enough, or am I just over analyzing?
2006-10-04 11:30:17 · 28 answers · asked by mandarin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm, I think you are worried about nothing. Dreams are dreams. Even if the girls in them actually exist, he can't help what he dreams. As long as he doesn't act on those dreams, you don't have to worry. The fact that he told you about them, indicates he cares for you enough to confide. That's a wonderful thing. Treasure it.
2006-10-04 11:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't think too hard about these dreams - you don't even know if most of what he's telling you is true! First of all, it definately does NOT mean your not good enough - stop blaming yourself! Secondly, maybe he is having trouble expressing his desires to you, so instead he's making up these dreams - it's his way of saying "I wish we could have it like this..." I'd suggest sitting down and talking with him - don't bring up the dreams at all - just ask him if there is anything about your relationship that he'd like differently. Be open minded, ask him to reveal a fantasy or two - you might be surprised at how his fantasies reflect his so called dreams. But I repeat, don't take it personally - if your sure he's not cheating, then your best bet is communication!
2006-10-04 11:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kristen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your worried for nothing. I think it's rude and disrecpectful of him to tell you that he is having dreams about other women. It may be innocent, but I would watch him. If he is dreaming about other women that don't exist, he may also be thinking about other women that do exist.
Also how can you be sure the women he dreams of aren't real? That may just be a little bit of info he don't come off of so easily.
2006-10-04 11:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by rebecwi3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it interesting that he tells you. What are his reasons for continuing to do this and then "apologizing." If he knows this upsets you, then why does he tell you? Dreams are our own private world. They don't have to be shared and they don't even have to mean anything because we can't control them. What means something in this case is the fact that he knows this hurts you but continues to do it. Why he does this is what you should be asking yourself.
2006-10-04 11:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely over analyzing . its his brains way of saying his hormones are racing and yes it is the testosterone one , he is telling u i think to make u feel jealous or in adequate , don;t believe it , its just a dream >>>>>
2006-10-04 11:39:23 · answer #5 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dreams are just thoughts from the past or the present that randomly come into a dream. if he has these dreams every day it means hes hard thinking about them and thats when its bad
2006-10-04 11:32:45 · answer #6 · answered by Matthew Shlmn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are putting too much into it. What either one of you dream is mostly beyond your control. Get even and dream a little about boys!
2006-10-04 11:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by djsanner@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is impossible to control your dreams. But, however sometimes your dreams spend on what is or what has been on your mind. Think about this. It is wrong for him to tell you this because it is disrespectful and communication is the key.
2006-10-04 11:40:20 · answer #8 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his way of showing you that he is a certified airhead.We all have dreams, they don't mean a thing, and nothing good can possibly come of confessing an erotic dream to your partner.Tell him you don't wanna hear it again.
2006-10-04 11:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by hott.dawg™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are like computers....they put out what is put in. Your boyfriend obviously has an overload of pictures, movies, magazines or whatever of girls in them?.....I dreamt about becoming superman when I was a kid but ....
Don't give up on him but check out what he reads, watches sees live or hangs around(the last one is dangerous if they are girls)......be his dream girl!!!!!!
2006-10-04 11:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋