how do u ask ur best friend out ?

Question

im not sure if she likes me
we've been best friends for 12 years.... and ive liked her for 12 years !!!!!
how should i ask her out ?
i dont want to do something ordinary

Answer 1

I hate to say this: but if you cherish your friendship, leave it alone!
If things don't work out(I'm not saying it won't), you just lost a friend of 12 years!

Answer 2

You have liked her for over 12 years, but the thing is you guys are best friends. If you both do end up dating, don't forget that if you guys break up, things would be alot harder to handle, and something that you used to have so good, won't be the same anymore.

You will have to ask her what she feels about you in this sort of way. If not, I strongly suggest to keep it as a friendship.

If you try to surprise her by doing something out of nowhere trying to be romantic, she will say "what are you doing?"

for 12 years of friendship, just be foward with her, she deserves that I think.

The best to both of you.

Answer 3

Your friend may be different, but if I were her I know I would like it if he brought me some flowers with a note asking me to dinner. Then at the dinner I would just want him to simply tell me something like "we've been friends a long time, and I don't want to ruin the friendship we have, but I know my feelings for you are stronger than that. I hope that doesn't make you uncomfortable." Just see how she responds before you go about asking her out.

Good luck hun... any other questions you have or tips you want I'd be happy to try and help you :)

Answer 4

Say this "hey I would like to ask you out on a date"
What do yo think? if she say "YES" great if not...just say this
OK! do you want to go to the movies anyway. And pretend that nothing ever happened. You by now have planted the seed in hr head that you see her as a woman not as a friend. Keep doing things together and enjoying your self..who knows one of these days she'll ask you out on a date.

Answer 5

Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.

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Answer 6

You gotta tell her how you feel, 12 YEARS!!!! That's a long time, you must be shy! Just tell her how you feel trust me it's not ordinary A LOT of people are scard of telling the person they like how they feel so just tell her!

Answer 7

u ask her out as if u would any other time. keep it as friends but when ur out w her make little moves, comments, or flirtaious passes,(i.e. softly, accidentiliy touch her hands, open her car dr, etc.), learn to understand, support, and appreciate her every move, comment, interest, look, and feeling. i guarntee if u treat her like the most beautiful person on earht and become her BEST friend, shell fall in love w YOU.

Answer 8

Once you are in her "Friend Zone" there is only 1 in a million chance of getting out. Think about if you want to risk your friendship for that 1 in a million chance. I say it better to keep her around as a friend so you can meet her girl friends.

Answer 9

trust me i amin the same position as you except i asked my crush out who was my best friend since pre-school and we ended up fine so if i were you i would do that on the tyra show so there would be a great chance she would say yesso i would ask her out on national television

Answer 10

just say like well we've know each other for quite a long time and we get together pretty well so I was woundering if we could try you and me out !
and if it does'nt work out we won't let any thing go wrong with our friend ship.