Can anyone tell me some ways to get over being so shy at meeting people in public i have no problem chatting online but when out i am trouble with things to say.
2006-10-04 11:15:39 · 6 answers · asked by B P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well first you need to look people in the eyes but only 75 percent of the time. if you stare at them the whole time they will think you are creepy
then you need to not fold your arms and stand up straight
ask how there day was what school they went to and what kinds of things they like
and if you are trying to talk to someone you have never met then the best way to get them to like you is a big fat smile
it makes people feel like you like them and that makes them feel relaxed.
2006-10-04 11:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start off small...right here. Answer a few questions on Yahoo Answers and give your knowledge. If no one takes your advise, that okay, just move on. Later step out and meet someone online. Perhaps someone in this forum as well.
Small thing add up to big things if you just take the first little pitter-patter step.
2006-10-04 11:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Doug C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am usually a shy person myself, not too terribly shy, but in the right circumstance I tend to be. I met the right guy (through a friend), and he's very easy to talk to.
Try to get some of your friends to hook you up. :)
2006-10-04 11:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal. all u need to do is to go out more and have more live conversation instead of chatting
2006-10-04 11:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's all about self confidence. Be confident in who you are, and the joking around and conversations will come naturally.
2006-10-04 11:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by high heat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the biggest conversation starters is HEY...We'ren't you hanging with "your friends name here" Ex:(Nannan)the other day? They may say yes..they may say no...if they say yes..then say Yeah thats one of my good friends..etc..keep going..if they say no..then say oh i thought that was you guess not sorry and what did you say your name was?...etc..keep going!
2006-10-04 11:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by Meggee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋