I have trouble starting conversations that last, the only thing i can say is "I have trouble starting conversations so what do you want to talk about?"
2006-10-04 11:12:57 · 12 answers · asked by Roger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off, telling a girl that you have trouble starting a conversation shows that you have some sort of insecurity( normally it would be sweet to be upfront about your problems, but girls are different and difficult these days)! Anyways- i know this might sound cheezy, but you should do your research about what this girl likes, find out where she is from( you could pretend that you have family from that area and mention it to her-to get things started), tell her how you are sick of the weather changes lately(if the weather has changed where ever you are at), give her a compliment about her hair or clothes( if they are nice)!!!! There are plenty of ways to start a conversation but you have to believe in yourself... don't try too hard things will just get even more complicated if you do. I hope i have been helpful...take care
2006-10-04 11:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I get stuck into an elevator with someone I dont know but I know they work on the same floor I start talking about the weather. I think that the best way to go and if it goes any longer than that it leads into different areas. For example: The weather was great this last weekend so I.... Then go into what you did this last weekend then you can give them a little view of what type of person you are usually things will lead off into a full blown conversation of course I always have to cut it short.
2006-10-04 11:16:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask open ended question that get the person to self diclsoe about themselves and that rquire more than a YES of NO answer.LIKE,,,In math what did you think about probem #5. I like you jacket on you where did you get it? How do you think the game will go this week?I'm sure she has an opinion on something.Girls like to talk about them selves so be prepared to just listen .
2006-10-04 11:20:46 · answer #3 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no NO
You don't tell girls that you have trouble starting conversations.
You let people think you are the strong, silent type.
Never admit any failings.
That's the difference between having confidence and being a loser.
Be affectionate, but if you have nothing to say - don't say anything.
Clint Eastward made a career out of saying "Yep!"
2006-10-04 11:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off with what you want to know. Ask questions that you or her may laugh a little bit about. Ask questions that you are interested in. Ask her friendly yet fun questions. Just relax and breath and let things just go. If you don't ask now you can't be mad later when you accidently find out...........
2006-10-04 11:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by lambchop20002003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep breath...(builds up confidence!) and go over and say whatevers natural.
the more you think about what you should say, the more you worry, the lower your self esteem and the more you'll muck up!
remember.... the girl is interested in hearing wt u hav to say!!!
just say whatever comes to your mind to be the right thing to say at the time!
No cheesy Chat up lines though!
2006-10-04 11:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this web is mostly for girls but it does tell u how to start a conversation with som1 you like check it out its myjellybean.com oh and gl
2006-10-04 11:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start off with a compliment
2006-10-04 11:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what shes interested in. Tell her you like her shoes. Be creative. : ] Best of luck.
2006-10-04 11:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK ABOUT WHAT THINGS YOU WANT TO KNOW ABOUT ONE ANOTHER THEN GO ON FROM THERE...
2006-10-04 11:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋