Well I just had a daughter 2 months ago and her father and I have a very sexual relationship. We are getting married, because we fell in love after I found out that I was pregnant with our daughter. We are happy but I am haveing that nashous felling again like I did when I was pregnant with my daughter I'm scared to take a pregnancy test too. Mainly I don't want to scare him with haveing another kid so soon. I won't have an abortion even if I am what should I do?
2006-10-04 11:07:41 · 21 answers · asked by chrissy20us 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
sweetie, it sounds like your mind is made up. you need to take a test for your sake and for the babies (if you are). it is possible to get pregnant again if you have had your cycle since giving birth and have began ovulating. did you wait the six weeks? if it turns out that you are not pregnant. please be careful, use protection and wait until after the wedding (i am sure you will look better in your dress without the basketball of a belly) lol...but seriously take care of yourself because regardless of what happens in the future between you and your boyfriend, the babies will always be your responsibility and the more you have the harder it is to do alone.
2006-10-04 11:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by Butta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. I got pregnant when my daughter was 3 months old. It was hard to think of being pregnant again and I had no idea how it would affect my life. Yes, it was very hard in the beginning after I had my son b/c I had a 3 year old, a 12 month old, and a newborn. But, now that they are 6, 3 and 4, I wouldn't have it any other way. My 2 youngest are so close. They do everything together. They are almost like twins. It's not the end of the world, even though it is very stressful. If you are pregnant, don't worry, when that baby comes, you will love it just as much. It'll be rough for a while, but it will get easier when your little ones get a little bigger!
2006-10-04 11:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm excited for you! My brother and I are 12 months apart and we were very close growing up. We had much fun and rarely fought. I did fight a great deal with my sister who is 2 years and 3 months older. I have another sister who is 3 1/2 years younger than me and we didn't become close until we were adults. If you notice most siblings... the ones that are closer in age generally get along well and play well together. Don't get me wrong there will always be fighting that goes on but it is much less. My two oldest daughters are 18 months apart and I receive compliments on a regular basis about how well they play together. It's also a good way to cut down on diaper time. :) You'll be doubling up for a while but then you'll be done. It's such a wonderful stage. :) Good luck to you and your family and God bless!
2006-10-04 11:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get anxious over this, take a test. It is possible to become pregnant again this soon, but it may also be your hormones shifting after the birth of your daughter. If you aren't pregnant, I would suggest that you use some form of birth control. Getting pregnant again so quickly can really be difficult on your body since all of your resources are transferred to the child and then you secondarily. If you are, this is not to say that you and your child will not be healthy, just be very good to your body and eat a healthy diet and take your pre-natal vitamins. Best of luck.
2006-10-04 11:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is kind of soon to have another baby but I think that's what I would prefer. Look at it this way, at least your kids will be really close because of their age. Me and my sister are a year apart and we're really close. On the other hand it will be very hard for you because you'll have 2 kids in diapers and your 2 month old will still be a baby. So I hope everything works out for you! Goodluck
2006-10-04 11:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by I smile because of them ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a big deal dat ur pregnant again so soon my aunt went thru da same thing but she was pregnant 3 months after having her first child i dont think u have anything to worry about as long as u health and happy well good luck and congrats on the baby and the marriage
2006-10-04 11:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by A Luv 4 U 2 N V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's very possiable to be pregnant again.I've seen some women have children 10 or 11 months apart.Take a pregnancy test to find out.Good luck!
2006-10-04 11:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by ang3lzfir3_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have a baby first. If you don't then, you should have another baby when your first babe is about 2 years of age. So you can grip on to how to raise another. If you are pregnant, then you should care for the babe the same as your first child. Babies are our future, especially girls. And if you can't handle both babies, then it is your desicion if you want to have an abortion, give it up for adoption, of keep it. That is my advice to you.
2006-10-04 11:16:04 · answer #8 · answered by Casey Pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if you are pregnant again...he should understant!!! It's logical that it you're doing it, there's a chance of making a baby. Don't worry yourself, that might make more sick, the mind can be very cruel sometimes! Take the test, take a deep breath, pray, and whatever the results, your man should take you in his arms and tell you it'll be okay, because it will.
2006-10-04 11:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, figure out what causes pregnancy.
Once you have that information, take precautions to make sure you don't get pregnant unless you want to.
You already answered your own question, "I won't have an abortion". So if you are pregnant, good luck with the new babies!
2006-10-04 11:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋