What should I do if I like this guy a lot, and want to ask him out...but I am too shy too?? I am afraid he won't like me back, and I don't want to face humiliation. I don't want things to be awkward either. What should I do??
2006-10-04 11:00:04 · 9 answers · asked by helper234 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Put pen to paper and say what you're thinking. Sometimes when you write a letter you express more deeply in words about your emotions
2006-10-04 11:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by Dragon Empress 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy here is what I suggest...
1. Find a mutual friend who can find out information for you. You know test the waters for you to see if there is a mutual interest.
2. If you find out he has feelings for you, then approach him face to face, because you already have confirmed information he is into you.
3. If you are still too shy, send him a note. Sometimes it is easier to just write your feelings on paper. The note also makes a nice little surprise, something out of the ordinary.
2006-10-04 11:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by coolbeanfive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have mutual friends or work together suggest a group date and strategically sit next to him at the table or bar and just talk with him to see how you two react to each other. If the conversation flows well he might even ask you out instead of you asking him. If not suggest a date to continue the good convo, not necessarily to hook up, that way you don't scare each other!
good luck, be brave!
2006-10-04 11:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by shanndawhit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some freinds to hang with...then all of you go and talk to him...then let one of them bring up some type of hook-up..then have them ask if he would ever hook up with anyone and if so WHO? thats one way..another is just to ask him to go to dinner or something...something nice...get to talking and see if it works! Good luck!
2006-10-04 11:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by Meggee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem. Good luck.
2006-10-04 11:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Oompa Loompa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in life we all take risks and this is one of them,,,go ahead and do it !! good luck , helper234
2006-10-04 11:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat i do is to use a friend to find out some info on him, and be friends with him before you ask him out it always works out better, single guys always want a gf
2006-10-04 11:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by andy2020@prodigy.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him, why not? its not like he is gonna hate you or anything....
2006-10-04 11:03:02 · answer #8 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY YOUR LUCK...IT WONT KILL YOU
2006-10-04 11:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋