I have been away and due to some problems with her family my lady love is outg of communication with me as she is a bit angry with me for some personal reasons but i ave told her the truth. now its been 4 months since she has spoken to me and i got a surprise email from her asking me how i am ... it was a one line mail and i replied to that but i have not got any reply back. i am soo worried about her and the situation that it drives me mad. pls giime some suggestion about what i shoud be doing.
2006-10-04 10:56:55 · 15 answers · asked by Rajesh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget about her - she's playing games with your. Have some self-respect man!
2006-10-04 10:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by magic_im_sopot 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know where she is, communication isn't a problem. Just go over there and try to resolve any problems you have w/ her family. If you don't know where she is, or this situation w/ her family can not be resolved, write her ONE email. Explain your feeling in a way that YOU know she could understand. Try to base it on how you know her and her attitude. If you send her more than one email it won't have as much as effect. Try not to sound to babyish, but try not to sound to macho. If she doesn't email you back in a couple of days don't worry about, it might take sometime for her to comprehend with your feelings and the whole situation.
2006-10-04 11:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by hacker_mason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like she is a little scared, upset, worried that you might do whatever you did in the past again. I hope your email to her was nice and truthful. Maybe she is trying to figure out what to write. I think you should hang in there, she wouldn't have written you if she didn't want to talk. Give her time, she is probably just trying to figure out the right words...... maybe you should try emailing her agian "just to say hi" This would let her know that your really sorry and want to make it work weather it be a friendship or more. Don't give up, work for her a little.
2006-10-04 11:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by kindaupset 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time, dont harrass her and be patient. respect her enough to give her the space she needs to deal with everything. she did contact you so let it be. just tell her your there for her when she ready. trust her enough to make up her own mind about things. your panicking and trying to force the situation which will only drive her futher away. calm down and be patient. respect her decisions and free choice. if she wants you back she'll let you know, if not move on. stop being so clingy and needy and go on with your own life as usual, you will hear from her when shes ready, good luck!!!
2006-10-04 11:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by kini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you screwed up, or she isnt that interested anymore..
come out and ask her is she still in love with you, or does she need space and if so for what reason,
Just be upfront and come out and ask her you have the right to!
Just a simple but very true peice of advice,
YOU WILL NEVER FIND TRUE LOVE WHERE IT TRULY NEVER EXISTED AND IF AT ALL IT DID TRULY EXIST THEN YOU HAVE FOUND THE ONE TO LOVE AND NEED NEVER TO LET IT GO.........................
2006-10-04 11:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Christine O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About all you can do is work on self improvement issues with yourself. Participate in counceling if offered. go to chappel, read the Beble, pray.Look at your behavior seriously that got you where you are now. do you really think that she wants you back in the same condition? Sorry.I always say that you can't change someone elses behavior, but you can change your own. Please take that to heart and good luck.Grandma
2006-10-04 11:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by nancy e 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, can't you tell she is not all that interested in you? If she likes you, she would definitely keep in touch with you. Why would you want to care about someone who doesn't care about you? It's time to give up, and go for someone who truly likes you. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 10:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Your Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find her and make physical contact with her. Once she sees you, all those old emotions will come flooding back to her.
2006-10-04 10:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray god follow social rules apply guruji s advice eventhough it wont make u happy
2006-10-04 12:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk to her in person and see how she feels.
2006-10-04 10:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋