Okay, the guy I am seeing & I are on a break right now. But we are still friends and talk at least three times a week. His birthday is coming up in two weeks. I am big on birthdays and he knows this. I have already been honest with him and told him that I couldn't throw him a party because it made me uncomfortable since we are in 'friends-zone' right now. He said that was fine and at least I was honest.
So, here are some ideas I have for presents. Can you tell me which ones would be stepping OUT of friends-zone so I can carefully not cross the line?
#1 - Taking his kids to the park, taking pictures of them, framing the pictures.
#2 - "Goodie Bag" of his favorite things. (his favorite beer, cookies, some red wine, chips, a cd of a good band..etc)
#3 - Sex. (LOL)
#4 - Friendly-dinner & a movie.
What do you think? Should I combine some? Like #1 & #4? or any ideas?
2006-10-04 10:54:25 · 5 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, definitely NOT #'s 1 and 4.....they are too intimate for friends. #3 is probably out since that would create problems. So I would go with #2. Just get him a few things he likes.
2006-10-04 10:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#2 is the best idea. Definintely stays within the friends zone. I'm not sure that #1 would but it might be ok. #3 - I hope you are kidding. and #4 again, might be on the fence.
2006-10-04 17:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you still care for him. they all are very personal. I suggest #1 & #2. Definitely #3 would not be "just friends" lol
and #4 may be a little too much.
best of wishes :)
2006-10-05 09:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by ♥honey♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#2 and #4
FYI #3 is stepping out of the friend-zone line.
2006-10-04 17:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think number 3 is out for now. But why not do 1,2, and 4. I hope things work out for you. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 17:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋