i like this guy n we were "talkin" as in talkin about goin out n 1 night he called me n brother who is 23 n im only 15 n he was askin me if we were "talkin" n i said yes n my brother didnt have a happy face when i told him that we were "talkin". well later the next day i start liken this guy alot we've been texting n callin each other all day. well my brother n my sister n law had to talk to me about some things. They told me they didnt want me talkin to this guy cuz even though he is 1 year older than me well he is a little advanced. he has had sex and has went out with a gurl who is 22 yrs old that my brother knows because she graudate the year after my brother. he was tellin me he didnt think that a 16 year should be datin a 22 year old. well after the talk i really just ended our "talkin" cuz i saw their point. the next day he tried callin and textin me all day and i never did reponded well the next day he acted like i wasnt even alive. what should i do, i missed the feelin of being liked. i really do like this guy but i dont want to go against my family what should i do???
2006-10-04 10:47:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok you guys this is my friend Mel and i have to say that she isnt "talkin" to a guy 23 or 22 years old. She is talking to a 16 year old guy and she is only 15. But that 16 year old guy has dated a 22 year old girl that her brother basically graduated with. and her brotehr doesnt want her to date a 16 year old guy who has dated a 22 year old WOMAN lol
but Mel just listen to your heart but remember family knows best i love you mel you my best friend : )
2006-10-04 12:19:13 · answer #1 · answered by Rodeo Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he dated 22 year old or someone who is older he doesn't seem to have the slightest idea what the real relationship is. ossibly yet but possibly he never will. I think it could be he just was attracted to you because he had sex and stuff. Most guys at his age are very active and have all those thoughts of having sex. So, I wouldn't do anything to make him think you like him. You have done the right thing, he doesn't sound like taht nice guy.
He ignored you because you ignored him. Forget about it and move on there loads of guys who will like you. You nevr know next day somewhere in the shop you will meet some guy who will be the right one, you never know.
But you have done the right thing, move on and forget about him.
Hope I helped in any even small way, Wolfy.
2006-10-04 10:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by lone_wolf_time_to_change 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he treated you that way over something small like text messaging then he may not treat you well over other things. I would listen to your family, you know they love you and only want what is best for you, I agree with your brother about the 22 year old, and it sounds if he is more expereinced that you are that he maybe having expectations of you that are beyond what you are ready for. Listen to those that love you, there are alot of guys out there that would probably be a better friend.
2006-10-04 10:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by preshus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Your familt is the most important thing they are trying to watch out for you. Look my brother had a friend he was great all through high school but that is when things went wrong. He moved to9 California and got in to some trouble. When he came back we all befriended him like it was nothing. But my mom kept telling me be careful you dont know him any more. So I kinda did but nothing happened so right when I was about to let down my guard he dissapears with are PS2 and are PS and all the games pluss cash and I have no dout that if I would have been home he would have hurt me. So no matter how nice he seems listen to your brother he is protecting you. Let him
2006-10-04 10:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by LEAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that when a really older guy goes out with a 15 YEAR OLD then he can end up in jail.Although you like this guy you should think about what your doing and what is going to happen in the future.I am not going against you liking him but maybe your family is right.No one can ever make you stop liking someone but now its kind of getting out of hand.
2006-10-04 10:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by astateson111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to go against your family, then the best thing you can do is forgetting the guy. Besides, if he were really interested in you, he wouldn't have acted like that and ignored you, right?
Look for another guy who's your age or someone your family like.
2006-10-04 10:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by meche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather than going out with boys, you should be doing your English homework. My brain hurts from trying to make sense of your question!
If I understand correctly, you're talking about dating a 22 year old when you are 15, right? If that's the case, then forget it! You're going to get him landed in jail!
2006-10-04 10:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Byakuya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the family on this one sweetie. There are plenty of other guys out there. I know the temptation is there to go against them , but just let this one go and trust me there will be another. This guy's trouble and your family is looking out for you. Good Luck
2006-10-04 10:51:21 · answer #8 · answered by answerman63 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like it would be a good idea. If you are not sure then move on. There are more fish in the sea. You are young and there will be way more boys in your life. Don't cause conflict with your family. More boys will like you!
2006-10-04 10:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Need Help! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer FORGET about him... your only 16 you have your whole life to be liked, and personally your the one who should feel good about this, your the one who stopped talking to him. Don't feel sad, be happy you got what you wanted... also from personal experience, your family only wants what's best for you. They love you!!
2006-10-04 10:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋