My boy friend will not have sex with me...i was woundering is it possible that he might be gay? And if so how would i know...? {ps yes this is a serous question}
2006-10-04 10:46:57 · 18 answers · asked by ashley p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he doesnt want to get you pregnant.
2006-10-04 10:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your boyfriend is gay. If he doesnt want to have sex with you it is for a reason. I have a boyfriend who thinks that is very sacred and he wants to wait until we're married. He says he wants it to be lke a boy opening his present on christmas:) I think you should talk to him and figure out what is going on.
2006-10-04 17:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Expecting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just isn't ready yet. It's okay for girls not to be ready, why not boys? Be patient with him. Sex is only one part of the relationship. If he wants to be with you, let him, but don't demand sex. Let it happen when it's right, when you are BOTH ready.
2006-10-04 17:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is very important in a relationship. If he will not have sex with you, have you asked him why? If it is not a logical explanation and he doesn't act like he's into you why are you with him?
2006-10-04 17:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Need Help! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that very strange that a man turns down sex i don't think that means hes gay have you ever ask him why he does want to have sex
2006-10-04 17:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem and he was gay pffffffffffffffffffff what a waste of time! move on sister!
2006-10-04 17:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might not be ready for that, but how old r u? Some people don't have pre-marital sex u know.
2006-10-04 17:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sports 4 Life! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, some guys are nervous a lot. Is it possible he's a virgin?
Also, have you been pressuring it?
If you get he right modd in the right place it will just happen.
2006-10-04 17:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by jake r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions....there could be a moral issue here with him or he just isn't read for the next step and all it will entail...
Have you asked him why??????It doesn't sound like you are shy..... Ask him... go on...
2006-10-04 17:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he COULD be gay... however... he may just wanna wait... have u ASKED for SEX? or the Reason why?
2006-10-04 17:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by King_lezbn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a problem...gay, perhaps. Very respectful?? You'd better get this settled...quickly!!!
2006-10-04 17:48:50 · answer #11 · answered by LuckyEddie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋