When asking for advice, why do the majority of peole say end the relationship?

Question

I've noticed that's the most common response. Doesn't anyone want to try to work things out anymore?

Answer 1

My answer to your question is end the relationship! LOL

Sometimes the question begs for that push... kind of like strenght in numbers, the asker already has the idea of ending things but needs to hear it from someone else.

There are things that just can't be talked out, and it's hard to change people... unless you are a good plastic surgeon. Some issues can't just be "loved-out" of someone

Answer 2

When someone comes on here spilling their guts about a sour or failed relationship asking what they should do, I think deep in their hearts they already know the answer. They just want affirmation and it shouldn't surprise the victim when people on the outside looking in have a much clearer picture and offer the advice of ending the relationship.

When a person becomes a victim of deceit and/or a broken heart, that same person blames themselves and they stick around trying to make things better. Most often, the problem is not with them, but you couldn't tell them that.

It's pitiful what some people allow others to do to them in the name of friendship and love. People are not doormats and should not be abused, but if you they remain in that relationship, they give the abuser permission to mistreat them further. And so, that's why people say to end the cycle by walking away because there are some situations that can't be fixed.

Answer 3

When someone treats you badly its rare things change. Most times when people come on here they are complaining about something their spouse/bf/gf has done numerous times. What more is there to do but end the relationship ?? Anything else usually brings you right back to the same place and you have lost more time out of your life and been hurt yet again.

Answer 4

Sometimes there's nothing else to work out. If you've seen some of the questions, the significant other, isn't treating them well. So what's the point of being with someone if they're going to treat you like crap, when out there, someone is going to treat them a whole lot better?

You can work it out if you want, but it takes both the people in the relationship to make it work. People will not change just because you hope they would.

Answer 5

personally i would say work things out as long as there wasn't any abuse going on; physical, mental, drug...any kind.

that's what is wrong with relationships now any way. people would rather find someone else and start all over rather than work on what you got and make it better. that's why there are so many men and women that think they are players. they're not... they just run from their relationship problems.

don't pay any attention to the smart *** answers that you get.

you'll know a good answer when you read it.

Answer 6

I don't know, I get that same response all the time, I do not want to end the relationship, I ask advice on how to make it better.
It seems most people on here do not know how bad some of the problems are or how to possibly fix them.

Answer 7

Most people want to take the easy way out, and ending something is usually the easiest way out even if it doesn't resolve anything. They're probably just trying to earn more points, so, they don't try to put too much thought into the situation.

Answer 8

that is a damn good question, and im glad i ran in to it. i have a lot of peps come to me for advice and ill be the first to try to suggest the working it way until theres no other way possible. ive been married for 6 yrs and we seperated for 2 and a half of them. i almost gave up but for whatever reason i didnt. when we got bk 2gether, it was like it was good but the problems were harder. i think its easier to walk away then to sacrifice personal wants and change personal wayz then to stay until theres a compremise. its sad but theres TOO many pep in the sea.

Answer 9

Because we love quitting!

Who needs to work at a relationship when there's so many other fish in the sea?

Answer 10

My parents work it out, I think they either get married too soon or they divorse or breakup just because its possible and they want the best story of being a h*e and getting 100 husbands!