She's legal and 21. I think she is absolutely beautiful and whenever I talk to her she is real a sweetheart, but I'm also really nervous around her. I'm really hesitant about asking her out because I'm a lot older than her and I don't want to be shot down. I'm afraid she will avoid me. I'm 48 years old and I'm well aware of the age difference. What should I do? Has anyone else on here dated a younger woman? I'm seriously afraid she will shoot me down and I will look like an idiot.
2006-10-04 10:30:20 · 15 answers · asked by Oompa Loompa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL well a little secret.......I am 22 and my bf of 2 years is 52......But I have to say it has been a rough road and sometimes I regret getting myself into this, but if you are willing to let her act her age and do the things you had a chance to do when you were younger with out bitching every two minuets that she'll be better off than me, think about it before you go for it. If you really think you could date her without being insecure and jelous over possesive and paranoid than you may have a good chance. We understand you have more experience than us but we already have one father we don't need another. But as for a roll in the hay, heck, whats wrong with that.
2006-10-04 10:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 21, I dated a 53 year old man for a time. If she's obviously flirty with you, chooses to spend time with you (not sure what the situation of yoru "friendship" is but I'm sure you can tell if she's passing your desk more than necessary) then go for it.
Actually, come to think of it, the last long term relationship my husband was in was with a woman who was half his age (he was 39 when they started seeing one another). He is 8 years older than I.
If you like her, you like her! I would definitely try to avoid the "trophy girlfriend " syndrome, just because someone will end up ticked off. You know, I think it's probably a bad idea to date her ONLY because she's young and beautiful.
Would you rather be shot down by someone closer to your age? :)
Have a blast.
2006-10-04 10:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by CuteWriter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm happy to know that when i'm 48 i'll still be lusting after girls, excellent!?!
i think you should ask her out and see what happens, but first know her background, like does she have a boyfriend/husband already, and if so then back off straight away and put it all down to her flirting (my last last girlfriend was an outrages flirt and was constantly being asked out and eventually did cheat on me, which was the beginning of the end for us).
however, if she's free then it can't hurt to go out with her and enjoy a relationship. if you two are compatible then you'll last, but if not then you've at least given it a go and enjoyed another person in your life.
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2016-10-18 12:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her be, like you say lust it won't last, a younger model will turn her head one day even if she don't shoot you down now she will in the future........... then who's gonna get hurt more then, rather than now? An age gap is fine i prefer an older man but this gap is way to big, admire from a distance that's my advice. If she approaches you first well go ahead but have yer eyes wide open, lol.
2006-10-04 10:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by Debs H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if she shoots you down? You're not going to look like an idiot. You're going to FEEL like an idiot if you DON'T ask her out and wish you had...
2006-10-04 10:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by LuckyEddie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to lose. If she avoids you, the lust will go away. You only get one shot at this life my friend, go for it.
2006-10-04 10:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age isn't that big of a deal nowadays but that is quite an age difference. if you are a george clooney type of 48yr old then go for it. but if you look hella old then forget about it gramps.
2006-10-04 10:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by WreckinShop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you don't step up to the plate you'll never hit a homerun. So what if she shoots you down.
2006-10-04 10:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what conditon your in and if you're rich, but seriously, she's young enough to be your daughter and you're almost 50!
2006-10-04 10:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by klipschaudio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋