Ok i just recently moved in with my boyfriend and i had this dream where my ex was begging for me back and i was dating my current boyfriend in the dream but as the dream unfolds i choose my ex over my current boyfriend? Why is that and why am i constantly having dreams about my ex?
2006-10-04 10:24:32 · 27 answers · asked by LaniChelle 2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems you still are at the tail end of your feelings for your ex. Usually we remember only positive or only negative things about people when they are away as opposed to what a balanced reality may be. You still have some positive memories and may even be worried about having those feeling! Just enjoy your current life and your dreams will go away. One good suggestion may be for you to go to sleep tired - making love with your current frnd that is!
2006-10-04 10:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Puneet S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 23:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that when you dream about exes it doesn't mean that you are not over the ex or that you don't care as much as your current love. It means that there is something missing from your current relationship that your ex might have provided. My advice would be to evaluate your relationship and see if there was something in your life that your ex provided but your current boyfriend doesn't and either discuss it with him or try to find that missing piece in some other part of your life. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 10:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by River 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like deep down right now your afraid that your losing your past because of moving in with your boyfriend. A dream like this indicates that you feel alone, not that your still wanting to be with your ex. Your ex is just representative of your past and all the other people your connected to. I think once you get comfortable with your new living quarters and meet some new people and make some friends these dreams will disappear.
2006-10-04 10:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did things end with your ex? was it on good terms or bad?
Did you break it off or did he? These are all feelings that could mean somthing but could also mean nothing.
I wouldn't do anything rash, how long ago did you break up with your ex and how long werre you together? This could just be a phase, I occasionally have dreams about my ex wife, most of the time they irratate me but, i dream of her less and less as time passes.
And this will too, just don't drop your current relationship because of a dream alone.
Good luck.
2006-10-04 10:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Teclis98 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What that is saying is that you have not dealt with the emotions you harbor inside about your ex. something in you still care an your pulling yourself apart trying to make a new relationship when your emotions are still in an old one. So when you sleep your heart talks to you an your mind lets you see it ,then in the morning you denial, But hey as long as you can deal with it's like having your cake an eatting it too so go on with your bad self lol but do take the time out for yourself burning the candle at both ends can catch up with you
2006-10-04 10:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by jeffrey h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Dreams are just that, it is you subconscious mind playing out. It doesn't mean anything. I had dreams of sleeping with both of my ex's together repeatedly and that will never happen. LOL. Good luck in you relationship, I wish you the best.
2006-10-04 10:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this one out...obviously you're not over him!!! Sit down and talk to your current boyfriend face to face about what you're feeling. Be honest and allow him time to process the information. And above all, NO BEATING AROUND THE BUSH!!! Tell him exactly what it is you want the outcome to be from everything in a kind, gentle, and tactful manner, and stick to your decision as long as you feel you're doing what's right. Best of Luck.
2006-10-04 10:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It simply means that he is on your mind often. Doesnt necessarily mean you have feeling for him still just that you think about him often. When you are in a serious relationship with someone you cant just turn off all thoughts about them when the relationship ends. With that said however I would say that you may be having some second thoughts as to wheter or not you have made the correct decision. Pay attention to your dreams they tell us alot about what is going on in our subconscious.
2006-10-04 10:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is the devil that you already know, he's more familiar to you. That is all. Dreams are just night time movies in cases like this. Don't go back to your rubbish, your ex is your ex for a reason. I bet the reason is still there.
2006-10-04 10:27:50 · answer #10 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋