i mean it just shows the guy doesnt wanna hurt that girl and respects her and wants to make her happy so why would asking if she wanted a kiss be a turn off?
2006-10-04 10:12:07 · 12 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gotta be aggresive dude.
Of course not too agressive though.
2006-10-04 10:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't ask. you have to find the right moment.
the right moment is not when a guy wants to make a girl happy, but when he is succeeding.
(having to ask suggests lack of confidence, which is a turn-off. going for a kiss without asking when she doesn't want a kiss, is also a turn-off. tricky, isn't it?)
in short, make her happy, make her laugh, make her feel she is lucky to be with you, make her say lots of yeses. in other words, the connection between you two has to be strong. in conversation, connections come and go. make sure it's at a peak before you make a move with a kiss....
then say something vaguely romantic. have a short pause when you look into each other's eyes. then do your thing!
2006-10-04 17:24:55 · answer #2 · answered by clamshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband asked me for a kiss the first and second times that he kissed me. I didn't see it as weakness or a turn off. I saw it as him being respectful of me and being a gentleman. It was one of the reasons that I fell in love with him. It impressed me.
2006-10-04 17:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are a real nice guy:) All men should ask a woman if she wants to be kissed. But do it while you still creating your relationship, becouse if you are with a girl for a year it has no sence.
2006-10-04 17:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by atena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think it would be a turn off because i am a girl. and it feels good to be asked for a kiss. so do not be worried about asking the giel you love for a kiss.
2006-10-04 17:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask me for a kiss ... then that tells me you're not sure of our chemistry ... it's all about timing ... that certain feeling you get right before you KNOW a kiss is coming ... if you ask then it just feels like " alright sure why not .. kiss me " ... no chemistry no butterflies no romance ... if it feels right then go for it ... if it doesn't feel right ... then you're probably on the right track and the girl isn't digging you as much as you want her to ... !
2006-10-04 17:17:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think it would be a turn off. asking for a kiss to guys may seem stupid, but to girls its romantic...so ask for that kiss, she will be shy, but just get a simple answer from her, french kiss her, and it wont be a turn off.
2006-10-04 17:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be a turn off, because she might think you are shy or unsure about kissing her. also, it might make it akward.
on the other hand, its cute and it could show that you care about what she wants. so go ahead and ask her.
2006-10-04 17:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it shows you're at least partially serious about her. A woman who is marriage minded would not be "turned off."
2006-10-04 17:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask her if you can kiss her it will ruin it, just lean in for it and see if she is in to it, if not back off and it might be a little awkward but just laugh it off and im sure everything will be ok
2006-10-04 17:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by courtneyjean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋