my boyfriend just got a new job. we live together. he use to be home every evening, this guy that he is working with is single player type. i do not know what time they get off because they are carpenters and make their own hours, but he told me they do go to his house to drink a few beers. i get pissed because he comes home sometime not until 8 or 9 o' clock. when he gets home we fight and i'm usually drunk. what can i do to not miss him so much.
it's like he now has another life without me. do i need to get one?
2006-10-04 09:56:23 · 8 answers · asked by christy o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him how you feel - thats the best option. You can also tell him how much you miss the time you guys used to share and you can even do something different or special to show him how much you still love him. I guarantee you that will make him come home to you mama :)
2006-10-04 09:59:13 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not the one who is bieng a jerk you are smothering him.
You are trying to control him and he will percieve it as you not letting him have any friends.
If he loves you it shouldn't matter that his friend is a player or not, however if you smother him you might just chase him into the arms of another girl. While cheating is always the fault of the cheater and it is ultimately his decision, you would be the catalyst in that situation.
It truly sounds like you need a life outside the relationship. Go out with friends have a few drinks on your own. 8-9 oclock is not late at all. Worry when he comes home at 4 in the morning with lipstick on his shirt.
Until then give him some room for the sake of your relationship.
2006-10-04 17:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-04 16:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the gym, go to friends, not be home when he arrives. Maybe he should get a taste of his own medicine. However, before you adventure out, talk seriously to him on how you miss him. Good luck!
2006-10-04 17:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby and some single player friends.
2006-10-04 16:58:16 · answer #5 · answered by Angela N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah!
Call your girlfriends up and leave him a note.
Make sure you get home way later than him!
And remember guys do it all the time and they expect us to understand - hey I think that's a song.
Have a great time!
2006-10-04 17:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by Shel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like that of him then break up with him
2006-10-04 16:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....or move on....that simple...
2006-10-04 16:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by turner32542 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋