Do you think that cheating would hold its same appeal to men/women if their spouses/significant others gave them the "permission" to be unfatithful? Isn't one of the major turn on's of extra marital affairs the fact that its "taboo" and a "secret to be kept"? Would you feel more or less inlcined to do it if you knew your significant other was okay with it as long as you were open and used protection???
2006-10-04 09:46:46 · 12 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm guessing it would spoil it (having permission) The whole idea is that you're doing something forbidden and naughty. I would guess that's where the excitment is.
2006-10-04 09:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by tom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called an open marriage. Not everyone is open to it. If the person doesn't let you know..then it's cheating, whether you are married or not!! As long as you are in a committed relationship and have a partner and go seek out new partners behind that persons back - then it's cheating - bottom line!!
2006-10-04 17:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Vanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having "permission" to cheat usually means you are in the lifestyle. It does not take the desire away. It just makes it easier, depending on the couples rules. My guy and I can't do anything behind each others back or if the other is not present.
2006-10-04 16:50:43 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see where your going with this and this already exists. it is called an open marriage. Both partners agree that they may see others for sexual encounters and promise to always come home to them afterwards. it rarely works out well due to jealousy but those who have over come it seem to have a strong relationship and continue to do well. My husband and I have dabbled with this and it was nice to try but we both agree that it was not something we wanted to continue past the testing phase.
2006-10-04 16:56:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whom ever tells you to go ahead and have relationships or sex with others, when you are suppose to be in a relationship, does not love you and does not think much of you, protection or no protection.
2006-10-04 16:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Bantree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its called cheating because when are you married to someone and it meant to be only u and the your husband/wife. but if that person is married and dating some one else, then he/she is having affair.
2006-10-04 16:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope,
I think people cheat cause their missing something in their current relationship. there are the cheaters just to cheat, but they are the minority, most cheat cause they want something they don't have now
2006-10-04 16:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by OTNEB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you really love ur mate how could u even want to ? If you do than you cant love them . thats why your married. to be only w/each other. If people want that why do they get married? I wouldnt you can still get diseases w/condoms. thats how theyre spread too.
2006-10-04 16:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it would matter, for most people its about lacking something in their relationship that makes them seek it elswhere.
2006-10-04 16:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what you are saying is that you want my dong so badly that you are going to talk to your current man about getting some permission?
hey, whatever it takes
2006-10-04 17:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋