My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year, and with college approaching, I'm questioning whether or not I should break-up with him. It's going great with him, but I have little way of knowing how great our relationship is for me (he's the only person I've ever dated) except from what I know about other relationships. Ours is certainly unique and strong. We can solve conflict, never insult each other, never fight, and never do any of the immature things high school relationships are noted for. I love him tremendously, and I fall for him more every day I'm with him. Yet, sometimes I half wish I'd never met him at all because I know how intensely painful it would be to break up. Should I break up with him now, so I don't fall fore him more deeply? It's crazy to believe there's a future with your high school sweetheart, the only person you've ever dated, isn't it?
2006-10-04 09:23:42 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just a few more notes: I am almost positive we will end up at different colleges, that could be far apart. Several months ago in reference to a couple he mentioned how incredibly hard it would be to have a long distance relationship--and that he didn't know how his friend could cope. Even though it was a while ago, it could still be a red flag. Our relationship is also getting more intense . . . not something I'm doing well with being I'm getting more insecure about the future the more that time goes on.
Thanks you so much for your answers! The insight is very appreciated.
2006-10-04 11:13:29 · update #1
ok, let me see if I can pose this question back to you in a different way. I have found this wonderful house...Its free, needs no maintenance, enjoys me hanging around, buys me stuff and makes me feel secure. I totally love this house, the only thing is, it is not in the best location. So, should I be a frigging moron and pass up on keeping it, or should I be the most retarded little wench and get rid of it?
I predict that you will break up with your boyfriend, be hurt, do about 3 football teams while you are in college, hope and pray that your old flame will take you back, contact him, find out he's married to someone he didn't quile love as much as he loved you, but he's happier because his new lover at least isn't a complete moron, then you will find that no man, or anything else for that matter will fufill you the same way your relationship with him did and you will die at the age of 29 a bitter heroine junkie too afraid to go on without sucking some disgusting drug dealer's dog's koche for some smack.
2006-10-04 09:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he never fight with you or played you. & if he never hurt you, dont let him go. cuz you know know he might be the one for you. What you have with him would last and if you really love him. Then you would do all your best to keep him and keep the relationship going. Maybe you can go to the same college with him or he can go to the same college with you or you can live in the same apartment and only see each other at night. You would find ways to keep him and make it last!! Dont ever let it go!
2006-10-04 09:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-04 09:25:14 · answer #4 · answered by mihai m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think it is foolish at all to believe there is a future with him. If he is your soulmate, it would be ashame to let him go just because you met him so early in life. Hang on with all you have, it sounds like you have a good thing.
2006-10-04 09:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make it work girl, I'm a sophomore in college and my fiance and I have been together since 10th grade. It'll be harder no doubt, but if you really love each other, go for it!
2006-10-04 09:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by miss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him, then trust that love.
i am getting married to my high school sweetheart in 2 1/2 weeks. he was my first kiss, and he will be my last! we will be married on our 8 year anniversary! :) and i just found out i'm 7 weeks pregnant! :) we are so happy and i am glad i met my one true love so young and didn't have to go through things that i watched my sister and friends go through (man trouble, breakups, drama, ect.)
2006-10-04 09:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by TN girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Date him if you still like him but maybe date other people to. Keep your options open you are young. Just be honest with him. Lies hurt more than someone not liking you anymore.
2006-10-04 09:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by That's my final answer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say go to GOD on this one he is the only one that knows who you are really ment for. look at me i have been devorced once and maby going on a seccond one. just do yourself a favor and go go go RUN to GOD and ask him for help
2006-10-04 09:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey if he is treating you right dont let him go
2006-10-04 09:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by God Is Love 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋