I am in love with a girl who doesnt know I even like her. Im deeply in love and cant stop thinking of her. One of my mates is dating her now, none of them know how I feel, and even if he does break up i cant go out with one of my mates ex. Im totally in love and simply canNOT stop thinking about her, so should I do?
2006-10-04 09:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by IAnswerQ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on dude its not worth putting your self through. You will find another trust me
2006-10-04 09:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um........uh..........well. do u value ur mate's friendship more than this girl u r in love with??????? it's up 2 u........ u cud explain ur feelings to ur mate just so that there wudn't be an misuderstandin. after they breakup if they do, then u cud ask if it's ok if u go out with ur mate's ex. If he's alrite with it then yey! If he's not.......i'm srry but that's when u have to choose if u like the girl or ur friend the better. good luck anyway cos u'll need it!
2006-10-04 09:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, She has a BF, so she is kinda off limits anyway. But I don't see why ya could not date her if she broke up with him. If he is your mate, talk to him bout it first, but since she is dating him now, its a moot point. Time to move on I would think. It ain't easy, but let her go
2006-10-04 09:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by OTNEB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not love dude....that is infatuation or obseesion. Otherwise known as lust. Love cannot occur until you actually know the person deeply.....now here's the advice....stop acting like some idiot sissy *** that has fixated on one of his friends girlfriends...she's dating your buddy...don't act like a loser....get over it...find your own girl and stop whining like a little puzzy....again....your not in love...you are just an idiot....say it to yourself....I'm not in love....I'm just an idiot....there you go....
2006-10-04 09:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a really tough situation i feel for you but as you said if your friend is dating her out of respect for their relationship i dont think there is much you can do right now.. if they do break up give it some time you dont want to be the rebound guy speak to your friend let him know how you feel and speak to her either way just be considerate of their feelings and your friendships... hope it works out for you thats really tough good luck!
2006-10-04 09:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you sure it's love, or infatuation? Sometimes we just simply become obsessed with someone to the point we *think* it's love.
There were several guys I had crushes on. One I was "in love" with, but he didn't even like me. We barely even had any interaction. I was basically "in love" with his appearance. You'll realize how silly it is later on. How can you love someone that doesn't even feel anything towards you?
2006-10-04 09:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be a friend. if the forces above shine -- then, ho ho. and being a friend, you get to know all the in's and out's of this relationship, and the love thing ...well.....if may not really be what you want....it is always a possibility that you must consider. so first be a friend....furthermore....to have a true love relationship...you must be friends first. so many things are involved with love, all must be considered. thats your feelings and hers.
2006-10-04 09:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by tgdjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should start to talk to her more often, and compliment her. You might even flirt with her a little. When her and your friend break up, wait a week and ask her out.
2006-10-04 09:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by osembob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone cause if she's with one of your friends you have to honor the code if you truly value your friendship with him.
2006-10-04 09:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out who cares about your mate.
2006-10-04 09:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by balletgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋