I guess I'll ask this another way: any of you ever have a tough time opening up to a guy you really liked (or thought you liked)? Were you able to get over it? What did it for you? Where did he fit in all of this? And did the relationship work out for any of you?
Sorry I know it's a lot.
2006-10-04 09:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think everyone has a hard time at first its hard when your just getting to know a person i think if you want the relationship to last you eventually will get comfortable enough and get your stride... i personally felt that way in my recent relationship we were so different at first but when we started talking we couldnt stop and we've been together for almost 8 yrs and engaged so it can work out if you let go of your inhibitions and learn to trust the other person it can be hard especailly if you've been hurt before but it can be worth it !
2006-10-04 09:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i have had a tough time opening up to a guy i had to get my friend to talk to him for me. he thought i was cute but he has a girlfriend..so i know that will never work out in the first place. But all you really have to do is if you want to be with him or her then you have to find out all the things about them before you date them.
2006-10-04 16:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had a hard time opening up to the guy I like. I haven't gotten over it yet so I can't tell you how it is going to end. I have a very close guy friend that I have strong feelings for. I think he likes me too. My sister, brother-in-law, nieces, and friends think that we are in love with each other. I am usually a straight forward person with no problem saying how she feels. I am afraid that if he doesn't feel the same way about me that it will ruin our wonderful friendship. I also can't continuing to wonder what if either. Good Luck with your situation!
2006-10-04 16:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
not at all.......um....well i finally got the courage to ask the guy. my crush was asking me if i liked 1 of his buddies and that' when i said 'no, becos ur the 1 i like'. he was completly shocked and i felt like an idiot. for the next week or so we both were avoiding each other...but then some days later he came to my house and asked if we cud go for a walk. he then explained that he had a crush on my since the 5th grade!!!! He kissed me and we've been going out for .......9 months now. I'm glad i did open up cos it's the best thing to do.
2006-10-04 16:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well...my guy and I have nothing in common. I had to fake liking to listen about football and ultimate fighting. But, that's what opened him up to me. I asked about his likes and dislikes. I got to know him and he in return asked me about myself. 3 children and 6 years we are still together. Although we still do not like the same thing, we at least hear each other out!
2006-10-04 16:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Randy, your best bet is to open up yourself and be open to them. Take a search on Google on how to do "open body language" which means that you are more welcoming to people. Show them that you are truly interested in them as people. The more they feel that you care about them as people, the more they will open up to you.
2006-10-04 16:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by Searcher 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It takes time. i satrted off by telling him bits at a time then on day i sat down and told it all to him. And yeah its working after 2 years.
2006-10-04 16:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by princess_aja 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when you go out w/ someone and your able to tell them like everything you really like them>
i know the difference trust me>>
when i go out with someone and i feel like i can talk to them i know i really, really like them but if i cant then it will not work out in less you get to know them more but sometimes if your meant to be and you've known it forever and youve both liked each other forever it will work> great luck!
2006-10-04 16:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
..i am careful what i reveal...some things need never be told...also i have to really really trust someone with my vulnerabilities...because i don't want it used against me...(this is what i have found that works best for me...thus far..)
2006-10-04 16:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋