why convert to muslim if your husband loves you?

Question

i heard many women convert to islam cos of husbands asking them to. love test: if u didnt convert should he care if he loved you? if he dumps u or hits u then he failed test. make sure though another man is there to defend u in case he gets voilent, these brutel men will hit women.

baby..: nice story but u have to admit most men are stronger than women. there are very tough women, and there are weak men but u on the whole men are physically stronger than women. my eyes tell me that. so i dont think i was being disrespectful.

Answer 1

The bottom line is that you have to be true to yourself. If you love a man who is muslim, but have Christian convictions, he should have the same respect for your religion that you have for his. One should never convert to islam, just to prove that they love someone. What would be the point to say you are Muslim if you don't believe in their ways?

Answer 2

not if her husband does not a have a situation with it. If her husband does have a situation with it and that's challenging for her to proceed obeying Islam in that homestead then sure she would desire to seek for divorce. yet God does not purely like the word divorce and hates it whilst 2 people divide. so as lengthy as her husbands if he's form of guy or woman because of the fact not all non Muslim adult males are. If he's the form of guy or woman who comes homestead under the impact of alcohol and then choose favors, or has pink meat or regardless of. What i'm attempting to get at right here is that as lengthy as she believes that her marriage and faith can get alongside that's ok. God would on no account separate a pair that have been at the same time for years in basic terms because of the fact the female or the guy chooses to alter the religion.

Answer 3

Here's the deal- I would NEVER convert to Muslim. But I also strongly believe that you should ONLY marry some one who has a religion that is different than yours. I think that it is very important that husband and wife have the same belief system. Otherwise there are just too many problems.

If he was Muslim and you knew that when you married him, then what did you expect? At the same time, he knew when you got married that you were not muslim so he should just accept it and move on.

Answer 4

Is this a question or advice?

I'm not sure how it works, but I think if you are islamic you must marry another islamic person (sometimes works that way in some religions... some Christians will only marry a Christian... etc.) To some people it's very important that the other convert or be of the same religion.. to others it's not.

If he dumps you for that, it's his choice.

Answer 5

On the guy's side, sometimes he catches a lot of flack about the illegitimacy of his faith if he marries someone who is not a moslem (sura 2, verse 207), and his marriage (sura 60, verse 10). Also, if the wife is a believer (in Islam) then things are better for him if he does divorce her (33:49). An-Nisa (sura 4), 25 begins a description that may be the basis for the "test":

And as for those of you who, owing to cir­cumstances, are not in a position to marry free believing women, [let them marry] believing maidens from among those whom you rightfully possess. And God knows all about your faith; each one of you is an issue of the other. Marry them, then, with their people's leave, and give them their dowers in an equitable manner - they being women who give themselves in honest wedlock, not in fornication, nor as secret love-companions. And when they are married, and thereafter become guilty of immoral conduct, they shall be liable to half the penalty to which free married women are liable.

While it originally is explicitly talking about marrying slaves the guy owns, some people see it as an application wherein if an unbeliever is married but converts, then in divorce the settlement normally due the woman is cut in half. So it is to the man's benefit. These days, a woman may be able to nullify the man's claims along this line with the "in honest wedlock, not in fornication, nor as secret love-companions" phrasing, especially since so many folks are promiscuous (as in the couple aren't virgins on the wedding night).

It is complicated.

Answer 6

If a Muslim man marries outside the religion, it is not required for the spouse to convert..yes it's ideal...but not required and this is a love test for both parties...if the woman loves him, she knows that one day he might ask her to convert (is she ready for that)...if the man loves her, he should know that the woman might not convert so is he ready for that...

one sided love never works...comprise happens from both sides.

Answer 7

well , it works both ways if you want to marry a muslim girl !!!! and if you are able to convince her family which is highly unlikely then for the union they would ask you to convert..... so its not about love its about religion and fanaticsm...they might write trashy reasons that people get confused and crap .....but who cares

Answer 8

If a woman converts to Islam , she will be one among the many wives of that muslim and can be part of an army which might include concubines also if the muslim can afford to maintain a large number . In certin cases , she can ge herselfe devolved also among friends , according to the customs prevalent among some tribes in Arabia ., They can aslo get divorced easly therby they can try a new husband .
There are advantages and disadvatages accoding to one's mentlity and taste .

Answer 9

It seems that you misunderstood true muslim men. Muslims do not hit women. They are ordered to treat them good.

Answer 10

I met a guy yesterday that left his wife after 15 years because she couldn't have children. Most selfish thing I've ever heard.