"Love @ first sight"
BUT what if you met over the internet?? Would you say getting to know someone for who they are & falling in love b4 you see them is sometimes better than seeing them first & falling in love w/ their appearence, later to find out they are ugly inside?
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Im haveing a debate w/ my cousin over this issue!! We need more input!!!
2006-10-04 09:09:46 · 11 answers · asked by BooSha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, that's how my relationship was started, by being just friends for a few months online, then after the attachment just got too strong to really withstand anymore, I finally went up and met her...(She only lived 2 hours away anyway)....and we've been together ever since. STRONGLY recommend getting to know them for as long as you can without any physical involvement......and in my case, just talking online or on the phone for those months helped a lot in getting to know exactly how each other is. Very strong bond between the two of us.
2006-10-04 09:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The Internet is not enough .. you need to talk on the phone a lot and get to know each other as best you can. If you decide to meet, meet in a public place like a restaurant. I know of several people who have visited each other after meeting on the internet and I would say that 8 out of 10 times it does not work out well. Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-04 16:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say meeting someone over the Internet and fallin in love with them is better because you know the person inside and not from the appearance cuz sometimes appearance can deceive you
2006-10-04 16:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Allyson M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummm....Im gonna say that it is prolly "SMARTER" to see someone before you meet them, just so then you know that they are who they say they are. BUT, I also feel that if you can fall in love with someone over the Internet before you ever meet them then that is a sign that you are compatible and that you should pursue things to see if your instinct was right. I agree it is much better to fall in love with a personality rather than looks, but we all know that that is not how it happens for the most part.
2006-10-04 16:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by c_69_2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I met someone over the Internet and got along Great with him. I was very interested in him. When I met him in person, he wasn't quite like I had him pictured in my mind. I am not talking about his looks. He was very handsome as he was in his picture. He was a little more "weenie-ish" acting in person. I wanted someone more "manly". He knew everyone at the restaurant at the hotel where we met. We didn't meet in a room, he just loved the food there. He wasn't as healthy as a person either. I liked him, but we just wound up friends, not anything more. He was a nice person.
I do know people who you meet later who appear nice at first, but turn out later to be possessive and not what they originally portrayed themselves to be. I hope you or your cousin is very careful. Get to know the person. It is fun to be excited over someone over the Internet, but they are not always what they seem to be in your mind and what you imagine when you talk to them for a couple of months.
2006-10-04 16:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is a toughie as Internet relationships can be not the most honest, people make themselves out to be people they are not, some are married and don't tell you etc. if you are lucky enough to fine one that is genuine then yes i think its Good to get to know them first, the love follows afterwords. Is it possible to fall in love without seeing someone, ? Yes i think it is,
2006-10-04 16:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i believe Love at first sight is real but over the Internet i guess its real But it cant be first sight if you havent even seen them yet. I guess it could be love ta first chat. And i think that personality is everything because ofcourse you are Going to think they are attractive at first but if you get to know them and they arent your type or just totally weird then that is one realtionship that isnt going to work.
2006-10-04 16:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by lilly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either way is Love, and it can't be denied. Good luck.
2006-10-04 16:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU CAN FALL INLOVE WITH SOME ONE JUST BY TALKING TO SOMEONE EVEN IF YOU HAVE NEVER SEEN EACH OTHER.
2006-10-04 16:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree... that is how my relationship is!
2006-10-04 16:11:30 · answer #10 · answered by Help??? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋