Sorry if you just read this, but I need lots of help on this.
I know what we have is real. She is caught up in some weird spot because of some baggage she has got from past relationships and I'm sure I've got some, too. I know I need to just chill and let things happen but it's so frikkin hard 'cause she shies away everytime we start to get close and has started working a lot. Everytime I am with her I have no doubts about us and want her to feel the same way but know she has to come to that herself. Any advice on keeping myself occupied while she sorts out whatever she needs to? I want her to know I still want her without burying her or ignoring her.
2006-10-04 09:07:32 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, 17 hours and your question wasn't answered. That's really tough.
How about this: Tell her, whilst looking at her eyes, that you want her and that you will give her "space" to work out her issues. Whatever of herself that she shares with you, you are glad to share it. Tell her that you love her.
As for keeping yourself occupied: I think that you are not so shallow as to only have 1 goal in life - her. How about getting fit? Doing volunteer work? Earning a second income by creating art? Picking a random topic at your local library and reading up on it? Spending time building up your other relationships, say with your family & close friends? Find out about another religion?
Look at your other goals in life. Be fulfilled.
2006-10-05 01:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋