Okay i see this guy on a regular all the time but he is so i mean sooo quit. So is there anything i can look for or ant signs. {{{thanx}}}
2006-10-04 09:00:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea, im a quiet shy guy myself. Your going to have to make the first move, trust me, i know.
2006-10-04 09:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by The infamous bongblaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is ask him.
I am very shy as well, and have never, in 27 years, approached a female. No matter how much I like you, I just do not have the confidence to say so.
If he is quiet and withdrawn, I'd say there's a 99.999% chance that he just lacks confidence as well. The thing is, if he is shy, then you need to be outgoing for the relationship to work anyways; so be outgoing and ask him out!! What's the worst that could happen??
I realize that it seems like a big deal now to just walk up to some guy and ask him out, but as you get older, you will relaize that it is not worth missing the opprotunity to have a good relationship just because it would be awkward to ask.
If he is not going to say anyhting, and you don't say anything, then how will you ever hook up??
Shame to miss a chance at a good relationship over something so silly, don't ya think?
Hope this helps :)
2006-10-04 09:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one. Try the old cliche gimmick of dropping a hanky, if they still make them or some other relevant item. even if he picks it up as a courtesy it's a way to break the ice. If he doesn't then either you need a bigger item or maybe you two won't be an item. People can be brought out of thier shells if you win their confidence and they learn to have a bit of self confidence.
2006-10-04 09:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Edward J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything to do with your terrible spelling ?
First of all you're thinking like a women, guys don't have little signs for this and that. If you like him ask him out, if he says yes then he likes you if he says no then he doesnt and move on
2006-10-04 09:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by dboz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have never had that happen to me but i would say that just see if he looks at you all the time and if he does then he likes you because if he doesnt say anything and he looks at you all the time then he likes you or you could just tell him not to be shy and to talk to you that could work too.
2006-10-04 09:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
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2006-10-04 09:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he admires you while your not looking at him, and is nice to you when he doesn't need to be. I was a shy guy in High school, trust me, if you want to know, be straight forward, and just ask.
2006-10-04 09:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by thepoet01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he shy? Or Scared? He may be scared to say the wrong thing. So TALK! straight up talk to him. Tell him ya like him, and its okay for him to open up to ya.
2006-10-04 09:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by OTNEB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he looks at your feet a lot. Try the dropping pen trick and see if he picks it up for you
2006-10-04 09:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by jercha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he will be more shy and nervous around you than anyone else, well at least I am. See how he reacts when you talk to him and when you are around him.
2006-10-04 09:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by artzonesigns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋