Okay, I have a fairly realistic expectation that men don't notice little things. I'm generally okay with it. I'm not going to expect nail polish colors or silly things.
However, he doesn't notice when I cut my hair or wear a dress, and doll myself up. We live together. I'm not all that girly. So when I do alter my appearence, to me it's a big thing. I wear makeup and all that, I just rarely dress up. Catch me? Is it wrong for me to get offended if he doesn't notice things? It doesn't even have to be complimentary, just "oh, you cut your hair today" ya know? I guess they are silly little things.
2006-10-04 08:58:13 · 7 answers · asked by baneoverlord 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he complimented you only when you 'doll' yourself up then you'd complain that he doesnt like the real you... women are bitches... just kidding! hes prob too busy watching football
2006-10-04 09:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem but my main problem is that me and this guy fight all the time but it's mainly religious problems. It seems like he never notices something unless it is the way he likes it. Well all of that is changing now because I quit doing it and he misses it....... Try that........ The best of luck to you and God bless
2006-10-04 16:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirl16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men notice, some don't ... Just talk to him about it.. I have w/ my bf.. He notices certain things sometimes, but there are times he doesn't.. I guess I don't care as long as he tells that i'm beautiful ! :)
2006-10-04 16:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He notices. i no how you feel. he sounds like he doesnt show his feelings toward you at all.
2006-10-04 16:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by shortnsassy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you expect, he's a MALE!
2006-10-04 16:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to feel that way. i would treat you that way baby.
2006-10-04 16:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by leglover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u both are normal
2006-10-04 16:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋