i went on holiday this summer and i meta boy he likes me a lot and me to i've fallen in love with him but then i had to go back to england and we keep in touch by phone msn email ect.. i dont have the same feeling i had while i was there for anymore but i still love and think about him and the next time i see him is like in 2 yars time but now there this boy that i like i think he likes me but i dont know what to do i have mix feeling am very fustrated help pls
2006-10-04 08:56:38 · 16 answers · asked by kady l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My bet is that you dont know the real side of this holiday boy.. Yes you may talk to you on the phone for hours at a time and email eachother... But you guys dont do anything together to truly know what he acts like, or what he wants from you.. I personally dont think that long distance relationships work out.. Wouldnt you rather be able to see your boyfriend when you wanted to at anytime, then to have to wait 2 years, or even months... I would say just stay in touch with the holiday boy, dont blow him off, but also dont commit yourself to something like that, when you have someone right there.. Best of Luck!!!
2006-10-04 11:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it mite have been a holiday romance, so let this boy over the sea know that ur not looking 2have a relationship with someone so far away and who u cant see. then u can go on a date with this other guy. he's closer to home and mite b better 4u than just seeing someone over a few years. u mite love him but ur not in love with him, so let him go so he can persue someone closer to him. u only ever find one person who loves u completely who wud never cheat on u and by the sounds of it u havnt met him yet. i met mine 5years ago and we r still together now, we trust each other wholly and know the other wud never b unfaithful. good luck!
2006-10-04 21:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got lot of growing up to do yet, this was just a holiday romance which usually fades in time, now your at home and see other boys.
2006-10-04 09:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by braveheart321 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
You don't fall "in love" with some guy you met on vacay. You fell "in-lust" or at least had a crush....
That aside, you are cheater if you have more than one relationship at a time..... even if it's via email.... although I don't know why you would persue some guy from another country.... Cool it.
By the way, what does this have to do with weddings?
2006-10-04 09:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
searching on time of season and if the swine flu continues to be kicking round in complete equipment, he would no longer have a call. i recognize the position I presently stay, they don't look allowing all of us below the age of 18 into hospitals for vacationing hours till it really is an end of life situation. At my OB/GYN, they are no longer allowing females to convey their toddlers with them to appointments. both way, i imagine you ought to enable your boyfriend recognize your desires and be "frankly pricey, i do not supply a rattling" if he receives mad about it. there is totally no longer some thing incorrect with waiting till you get living house. For cripes sake, a minimum of supply a clean mommy 40 8 hours to regulate to the actual shown reality that 2 days in the past she wasn't a mommy. I firmly have self belief that the first few days proper after the toddler is born, is important mommy, daddy, and toddler bonding time. no longer mommy, daddy, toddler and each and each relative nonetheless alive bonding time. That being stated, i have self belief that kin could no longer visit on the well being facility yet truly could call you at living house and make plans for a visit, the position they convey about lunch/dinner with them so that you do not could prepare dinner. searching on the a at the same time as of his toddlers, they were get on your nerves. What the hell is there for a youthful baby to do in a well being facility except sit down, be quiet and be tremendous? no longer some thing. This finally ends up in ornery youthful ones operating round and taking section in once you only opt for peace and quiet. a minimum of in the adventure that they visit at living house, they are going to have some thing to do like watch television, bypass outdoors and play, etc etc placed your foot down. it truly is your first toddler and his fifth. He desires to carry close YOUR desires, no longer any opposite direction round. If he can't do not ignore that, then i think there is not any longer some thing he can do anyhow because you've very last say in who is going in an out of your room. do only not cave. good success and congrats on the being pregnant :o)
2016-11-26 02:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, personally, long distance relationships never seemed to work in my opinion. Especially if you won't see him again for a while and if you like another boy now. If your feeling for him is fading and your feeling for this another boy is growing, I'd give this new boy a chance.
2006-10-04 08:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Emirii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy in England is probably in the same situation as you. So just tell him how you feel and give this new guy a try. You never know maybe your just wasting your time.
Ive been in this situation before so I would know.
2006-10-04 09:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by China69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A summer romance usually fades away. Tell him you and he should go on with your lives and date others. Then you can make a move on the local guy.
2006-10-04 09:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
end it with your holiday romance, but remain friends and go ahead with this new boy, your only young, play the field a bit, live a bit, dont waste your life.
2006-10-04 09:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Raine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you went on a holiday and it was wonderful...if you keep it with the "holiday guy" it won't be so wonderful unless if you plan to have a vacation romance all the time.
2006-10-04 09:55:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋