have never slept with any of their friends or anyone else during our relationship of 2 years. I didn't even accuse them of this. Why would they say this...when I just said it hurt me that they let those people grope them in the bar. Does this kinda mean they are actually guilty of having sex ?...I think it shows even more guilt.
2006-10-04 08:52:56 · 14 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to say but it does sound a lot like guilty conscience speaking.
2006-10-04 08:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is letting other women grope him in a bar, well ya never can tell what else hes not saying no about. If he really loves you why would he even put himself in those positions?As for the others they could be telling the truth or trying to get u outta the picture. Keep a close eye on ur guy.But it does sound like hes cheating.
2006-10-04 16:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by le_le_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they just like to be groped by strangers who are probably too drunk to even know what is going on, etc. Cheap, cheap, drop her...
If you were to get married, is this the type you want for the mother of your kids? Think about it? Just go out and find the "right" one for you, and don't spend time and money on someone you do not trust and feel paranoid already about. Get on the track of finding a girl who is true to you, not this one.
2006-10-04 15:59:15 · answer #3 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say that means she has slept with them. She probably assumed that would be your immediate thought. At the end of the day though, why be with anyone who lets others grope them, friends or not.
2006-10-04 15:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pal...dump the broad (or whatever gender the "significant other" is) and the gropers. Unless you like being played the fool. If this is the scenario you stumbled into then let me put this to you....what possible excuse could any of them come up with for you to say "Oh...silly me..I must have misinterpreted what I saw".
Huh? Huh? Am I making sense pal? You see the light?
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2006-10-04 15:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They might just want to clear the air first before someone esle starts rumors to really get your mind realing. She might not have slept with them, but she knows you, and wants to be sure to nip in the bud whatever things might be realing through your head. I say trust it, but tell her that if she loves you, she'll respect your feelings and never let something like that happen again. Something like that happened to me. My hubby left 1 month after our wedding and was training in Basic, Officer Candidate School and Officer Basic Course for a year straight. I made friends with my neighbors, but one of them kept hitting on me making temptation very difficult. I got really close to cheating on him, but stopped myself. So I mad sure he found out from me first so he didn't have to worry about rumors. Needless to say, we are still together and closer than ever. And I will NEVER let that happen again, not even close. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-04 16:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by afafae25 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you a swinger? if not she's either smoking hot and great in bed and worth the bullshitt or your IQ is that of a woodpecker.
Time to get up on outa there fella.
2006-10-04 15:58:33 · answer #8 · answered by Franklin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if there is some guilt there. Why else would they run to try and cover something up that wasn't mentioned?
2006-10-04 15:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM NOT SURE WHAT YOU MEAN BY GROPING BUT IF YOUR MEANING WHAT I THINK YOU ARE THEN I THINK THAT IS BEING A CHEAT. IN MY OPION IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE INTERCOURSE TO BE CHEATING
2006-10-04 15:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by hunter.lane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋