I have been talking to this man for almost 4 years. He says that he likes me and that there is nothing wrong with me but that he is not ready for a relationship. Over the last 4 years I have tried to let him go by telling him not to call or speak to me anymore, but in a month or two we are right back talking again. He says that he does want a relationship because he has been hurt b4 in the past ( but haven't we all). I'm more into the church now and he is not. I want to let him go because I feel that I deserve to be treated better, but I just dont know how. What should I do?
2006-10-04 08:45:07 · 7 answers · asked by SWEET HEART 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have answered your own question. You feel you deserve better than he is giving to the relationship. It seems like it's a dead end and you really need to move on for your own sake. You can't find Mr. Right if you're focused on Mr. Wrong. Let him go and start looking for someone that will meet all your needs that you can build a future with. To continue on this path with your current man you must accept the fact that he has no intention of making a life with you and that you are destined to always be last in his life. If you have to slowly wean yourself from this relationship, stop calling him and don't accept every call from him. Make plans with your friends and start living your life again. Soon you will look back and realize that you have moved on and can fully let him go.
Good Luck!
2006-10-04 09:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kwk2lrn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, what you should do is stop with the tidings. Secondly yall keep getting back together because it's convenient for him. I mean if I could go to a phone company and get a phone without a contract, I'd freakin' take it!
2006-10-04 08:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-04 08:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nobody is forcing you to take his calls, call him or hang out with him. Just end it. Your not getting what you want and your not happy and for god sake, its been 4 yrs.
2006-10-04 08:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be friends, but don't expect more than that....and move along..find someone closer to you....
He could be a freak anyway!
2006-10-04 08:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to more men...
2006-10-04 08:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart
2006-10-04 08:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by tonima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋