There will only be 5 groomsmen and one junior groomsman.
2006-10-04 08:40:43 · 28 answers · asked by princess26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you are being pressured to have to include all the family and their children or something then by all means it is too many - you should have only who you really want in your wedding. If on the other hand that many people ARE who you truly wish to have in your wedding NO it is not too much.
It is up to YOU (the couple) whom you include in your wedding, and ONLY you.... dont let anyone else decide that for you.
2006-10-04 08:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, its your wedding. We had 4 bridesmaids, 4 groomsmen, 3 flower girls, and two ring bearers. My only suggestion is that you consider your pictures and decide if you care if the sides are even. If possible you might want to add a another jr groomsman to escort the other junior bridesmaid. That way she will be able to join in the bridal party dance. Or have it be a fast dance and have three jr's walk down the aisle together.
Of course these are only ideas and ou should definitly have whoever ou want stand up with you. ITS YOUR WEDDING :-)
2006-10-04 21:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy-of-Twins 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really up to the bride and groom. I had 5 bridesmaids (including moh) and 2 flowergirls. We had 5 Groomsman (including best man) and one ringbearer. We had 250 guests. But I was going to have this many attendants anyways because I like the look and because of my friends that was going to be up there. I think you should have the amount that you want up there. This is your wedding and nobody else's. Do you care if your side has more then the other side? I wanted mine even except for the flowergirls and the ringbearer. But if not then I say you are good to go! Don't let somebody else change your mind.
I had to realize this when planning my wedding. I wasn't mean about it at all. I just would simply say thank you for the advice I will consider that. And I did, and sometimes I would realize I was wrong, but others I would keep it.
2006-10-04 16:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
had 250 people at my wedding and had 6 groomens and 6 bridesmaids( best friends from high school and college) on each side with 2 flowergirls and 2 ring bearers (all four under the age of 5). It is not too much and you dont have to invite 800 people to make it seem right. But if you are having a wedding under 150 this might seem a little too accessive to have 9 people in your party. You also have to remember that the pictures that you are going take with you photographer are going to have all of these people in it, so some of the pictures might look a little too "full". Re-think your decision before you go with a big wedding party
2006-10-04 15:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by jack_daniels 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope, have as many as you want. If these people are your closest friends and family, and you couldn't dream about getting married without them beside you, have um! Do be careful to not be guilt-tripped into having them tho! If it makes you feel any better, I have 4 bridesmaids, (2 of which are maid and matron of honor) 3 jrs, and a flower girl. we only have 4 groomsmen!
As far as the Juniors, for me they are 3 of the most special people in my life, and wouldn't dare not include them, age isn't an issue and I don't care if they have to walk alone! Good Luck and congrats!
2006-10-04 16:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by ASH 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's perfectly fine! That sounds like a really fun wedding party. You do whatever you want to do. You don't have to have the same number of groomsman and bridesmaids and I've seen plenty of weddings with more than one flower girl.
That sounds wonderful - enjoy it! It will be fun!
2006-10-04 15:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by PT&L 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all really depends on what you want. If you want a big wedding party have one.
If you want 5 bridesmaids, 2 junior bridesmaids, & 2 flower girls then have that.... and no it doesn't matter if the sides aren't even.
Honestly, it's not my cup of tea to have a HUGE wedding, but each to his own.
2006-10-04 15:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Laura 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that's a HUGE wedding party. Just remember that you don't have to include everyone. And also remember that the bigger your wedding party, the more expensive it will be and more hectic. The smaller the easier to manage. But if big is what you're going for, then by all means go for it. My wedding party is small. 3 bridesmaids, 3 groomsmen, 1 flower girl, 1 ring bearer.
2006-10-04 16:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by texas y'all! 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, I think that's too much. I personally would get rid of both junior bridesmaids and one of the flower girls. But I'm biased, because I'm not a fan of the junior bridesmaids at all.
2006-10-04 15:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats funny, it is a lot of people! thats 15 people that you are going to have to buy gifts for ect.
dont worry about the fact they're more girls than guys.
i'm having 3 bridesmaids, 1 flower girl, and 2 groomsmen
thats it!
2006-10-04 15:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by TN girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋