2006-10-04 08:36:47 · 28 answers · asked by Adrian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Listen to Trace Adkins single "Swing".
It has the answer you're looking for.
2006-10-04 08:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by dirftwood22 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Don't stare at her for two hours before you finally talk to her. She' notice that and think you're weird. Walk up with your shoulders forward, your back straight and your head up. Look her right in the eyes (I mean RIGHT into her eyes). Say, "Hi, I'm so and so, can I buy you a drink?" And buy her a drink. Then start asking simple questions like, are you here with anyone, what do you do for fun, etc. But you HAVE to make her laugh. If you make her laugh, she will be much more interested in you. And know when to take a hint. Watch for signs that she's not interested, and move on. Don't take it hard, just go take a shot and move on.
If you're not funny, it's probably because you're not letting loose. You've got to shake the worry of being embarrassed and just do it. It seems like the jokes come like salmon in mating season when you let loose and don't worry about embarrassing yourself.
...:::Most IMPORTANTLY:::...
Dress nice.
2006-10-04 15:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up and tell her that you noticed her and that she struck your eye and would she mind talking with you. Be honest and show confidence. Don't be a macho fool like some of these idiots. I have no problem walking up to anyone and introducing myseld. Just be outgoing and honest. AND DON'T start bragging about your car, boat etc. Keep it casual talk about her. What dose she do, did she go to school around here? Be polite. If she does not want to talk with you, thank her and say maybe some other time and smile & walk away. Good luck. GaryT
2006-10-04 15:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by gary t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try buying her a drink, just ask anything that is not unbeleivably stupid and let her talk. Don't interrupt her, only nod and it doesn't matter if you don't understand anything, just pay attention to certain keywords, and when she stops talking, ask a question related to the keyword (she will think that you actually care and are a good listener). It never fails!!
2006-10-04 15:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by osovodka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie Hitch, Will Smith hit a hole in one. At the bar leave all the silly stuff on the screen.
2006-10-04 15:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by dee-dee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be honest.
I'm jack and I ..... noticed you from across the room, saw an empty seat, am interested in knowing more about you, like to get to know you more, can I get the next drink for you?, I like that sweater/shirt. I like that TV show too, whos winning, etc.
Basically anything that gets you in, once your in, your in
2006-10-04 15:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Franklin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.
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2006-10-04 15:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by alla a 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
1. "can I buy you a drink?"
2. can I borrow a cigarette? then talk to her about something random
3. make a witty/wacky/funny observation in your own style
4. tell her she has (or you think she has) a beautiful smile (provided she actually smiled at you
5. if you're drop dead gorgeous, use a pickup line
6. be creative
2006-10-04 15:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by badcloud56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile, say hello and maybe offer to buy her a drink. Take your cue from there. NO CHEESY CHAT UP LINES! It just gives us something to laugh at with our friends later...
2006-10-04 15:41:57 · answer #9 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off by asking "Hey do you come here often", and ask her if she is enjoying herself, and then offer to buy her a drink. Depending on the answers to the first two questions will determine if she is enjoying your company or not.
2006-10-04 15:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋