She's completely opposite from any girl I 've ever dated. She's not a cheerleader or dance team, she's a little heavy but she has this "i don't care attitude" that makes her seem real and not fake and I think thats what I need to see. She doesn't wear the same clothes and she does her own thing. My question is should I ask her out? Will she shut me down or should I just forget her?
2006-10-04 08:08:28 · 11 answers · asked by Jake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't just randomly ask her out. Go in steps. If she's seen you with other girls that are completely opposite she may think that you don't really want to be with her and there is some motive behind you asking her out. Suggest you guys just hang out a few times as friends and see what happens. Girls can be very emotional and come up with a lot of messed up thoughts about why guys do things. Try to be sensitive.
2006-10-04 08:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means, ask her out. She sounds confident, and comfortable in her own skin, and that's something that can be pretty rare at any age. Get to know her, she will be worth it...but be secure, don't worry about her shutting you down...this is not the time to look insecure...just be yourself, and go for it.
2006-10-04 15:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out what can it hurt? You're a good guy for looking past all the fake stuff that comes with most girls!
2006-10-04 15:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jake
I think she would be flatter that you asked her out so go for it and ask her to the movies as friends and go from there good luck to you
2006-10-04 15:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your instinct! And remember, if you don't ask; you'll never know.
2006-10-04 15:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know until you ask her.
2006-10-04 15:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Akane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really interested, you won't know unless you talk to her...
2006-10-04 15:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by jlr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her... i think you should just go for it... and see what happens.
2006-10-04 15:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by Ramya D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try ure hand...u only live once and really....she could either say yes or no.......take a chance......
2006-10-04 15:11:44 · answer #9 · answered by sincere030170 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes?
2006-10-04 15:10:30 · answer #10 · answered by *Katie Sanderson* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋