the guy that aked me.,isnt my type at all..he just asked me 5min ago at the bus stop..hes a friend and when i was younger he asked me to be his gf so i was like i cant belive he asked me after that!! but i said yea...and i have a bf in poland..and i love him....i want to tell him that im going with some one but im scard that he might be sad....is it ok for me to go? its only a dance and nothing more...rigth? and i know i love my bf so its not like we r gonna do anything...
2006-10-04 08:05:29 · 16 answers · asked by Angelika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he understands that this is just a favor as a friend, fine, but really, he probably thinks its his chance o dazzle you! so if youre really not interested, the best thign for HIM and for you is to let him down easy and nicely, but FIRMLY, tell him you dont want anything more than friendship.
2006-10-04 08:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by mark r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if you really loved your b-f you wouldnt wanna be with no one else but your b-f. Your looking to get into a mess here even more cause your b-f is in Poland. This can end in a break up.how u ask, well since your b-f is in poland he will end up accusing you of doing stuff with that guy inviting you out and cheating behind his back. He'll eventually do the same thing to you and you wont like it and both of you will leave each other just for a 3 hr dance. Is it worth it?! think about it hun.
2006-10-04 08:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by starlette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
voilet pearl is right you dont need a bf in poland...infact you really dont have a bf at all an im and email relationship does not consist of a relationship at all.. its just friends. think about it you cant see him cant talk to him on the phone unless you plan on paying for the long distance over sea phone calls, your iming each other is limited due to the time difference and the fact that your in school. even if the kid that asked you isn't your type go with him anyway and consider looking into a more stable person to person relationship, and tell poland guy that you just want to be friends.
2006-10-04 08:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by shellie11985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live in the USA and have a "boyfriend" in Poland, then I think it's silly to sit home all the time and miss out on important events in your life. Enjoy the dance, and maybe reconsider the idea of having a "boyfriend" you never see and never date and who can't take you to dance and who doesn't take you to dinner or movies....
What's the point of a boyfriend you never see?? Be with the people who go to your school and enjoy living your life. You don't need a "boyfriend" in Poland.
2006-10-04 08:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you aren't in Poland now, so ask your boyfriend if you can go to the dance with your friend, and see what he says. It might be a good idea to just be friends with the guy in Poland and date the guy who lives where you live.
2006-10-04 08:09:57 · answer #5 · answered by bcrazycaroline18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to tell him but not directly , ask him can u bring ur bf along with u .he will understand.
if he says yes : tell him on the day tht ur bf had to return to poland urgently and enjoy the dance with him.
if he does not reply : dont forget to thank me :)
2006-10-04 09:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're able to devour a gaggle of skittles for like 3 days right this moment. no longer something yet skittles. you have a 4 pound bag why no longer? Then devour a word that announces "confident" and take a unload in his tennis bag and make him dig with the aid of your multi-colored fecal rely to get his answere! :D
2016-10-18 11:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....go for the homecoming with that guy, and tell your boyfriend AFTER the party not before, otherwise he will just spoil it. Infact what he does not know won't hurt him. I wouldn't tell him. You are not married to him yet, so don't act married gal. Have fun while you still can.
2006-10-04 08:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have a boyfriend i do not think he would appreciate you going to the dance with someone else...think of it as the other way around...would you want your boyfriend going to the dance with another girl...it is good you know your boyfriend well but realise that you do not need to take him for granted either...
2006-10-04 08:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's so sad that u have a bf and u are still accepting dates from other guys !!! it's girls like u that make it so hard to find faithfullness in a relationship !!
2006-10-04 08:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋