I'm 25 and still a virgin (a rare breed, I know). Out of curiousity, what would you think of my decision to wait until marriage instead of "going with the flow" like some people do and not waiting until marriage? Am I nuts or am I smart?
This is strictly out of curiousity.
2006-10-04 07:59:32 · 25 answers · asked by chrstnwrtr 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are what you want to be. That's the best thing you can do for yourself. Well done. As long as you are honest and true to yourself, what ever answer you choose is the right one.
2006-10-04 08:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's fine and very honorable and if you've waited this long, then wait...
However... and this is also strictly out of curiousity because I knew virgins that still practiced oral - is this the same case?
I know that sounds obnoxious - BUT I'm telling you and other ladies that see this answer, you will always keep your husbands/BF's happy by doing just that! AND it's even better when you don't have to ask for it :)
2006-10-04 08:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 00:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i look at answers so far and i am amazed i thought most would slag you off.but on the contrary many are a little envious,i can only compliment you on what is a rare moment in todays promiscuous society,your future partener will be gifted by you,its many a mans dream to marry a virgen,i married one and was one myself,we had marvelous times discovering each other,i wouldnt have had it any other way.good on yer girl ¡
2006-10-04 08:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by wozza.lad 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will be honest, I didnt save myself. I thought it was ok because i waited till i found someone i was deeply in love with. When the relationship ended I was even more devastated. So no, I dont think you are nuts. I think you are very brave, hold on to your virginity as long as you can. Then it will be even more special when you chose to lose it!!!!
2006-10-04 08:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with saving yourself for marriage. I think that is smart of you. If I could go back and change time, I would change when I lost it. Also, if that person really loved you, he would wait for you. He shouldn't pressure you to do anything you wouldn't want to do.
2006-10-04 08:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by Akane 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you would know the man truley loves you and the thought of a 25 year old virgin is sooo exciting!
2006-10-04 17:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by klay43701 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I used to think it was wierd to hold off and impossible for me.. as it turns out... but now that im married.. i wished i had waited because my partner was a virgin and still to this day i am the only person they have had.. and thats really meaningful.. so from my point of view ... i admire you!
2006-10-04 08:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by harold y 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything is wrong with it. I didn't wait exactly until I was married, but my husband is the only guy I've ever had sex with. After we dated for a long while, I just knew that he was 'the one'. I think it's very respectable to wait. Most of my friends were proud of me for holding out for so long.
2006-10-04 08:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by jlr 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with it. The only down fall would be, you wouldn't know what you are doing in bed. But I guess if you got a good man he could teach you. You just can't get jealous of hes past. But good for you. Your right, there are not many like you around, I would say none.
2006-10-04 08:04:31 · answer #10 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are smart... I am 20 and was a virgin till I was 18. I wish I would have not had sex then. I wish I was still a virgin! Stay pure until you get married!
2006-10-04 08:02:50 · answer #11 · answered by Help??? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋