2006-10-04 07:56:37 · 39 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I fail to see why this is a question. It's okay.
2006-10-04 07:58:24 · answer #1 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's "ok" for unmarried people to do whatever the heck they want. The question is: do you want to be with a boyfriend who goes to strip clubs with his friends? Is that the kind of guy you want?
You can either find a boyfriend who isn't interested in that, or accept the fact that your boyfriend enjoys viewing semi-naked women with his friends.
You can choose your boyfriends, but you can't change them.
(Personally, I wouldn't date a guy who went to strip clubs. I like a man with higher standards.)
2006-10-04 08:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a personal view on this subject. Can you trust him? I personally do not like the idea. Why would he want to go give his money to strippers, when he has a girl at home. It make no sense to me. I do believe it is so okay for your boyfriend to go and hang out with his friends, but why do they have to go to the strip club? Are all of his friends single, so of course it is okay for them? I would not want my boyfriend spending his money on them bitches, spend time with me, so no I do not think it is okay, however, everybody has their own opinion and mine I'm sure does not match everybody elses. Good Luck
2006-10-04 08:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by mansyroot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone has a different opinion on this.... but im going to give you my opinion with a full explination. you dont have to agree... but one way of deciding is knowing peoples views...:
NO! its not okay.
because:
if you arent enough now, then you will never be enough, not even when you are married.
there are many excuses men (and women for that matter) use. some say:
"its all in fun, me and my friends go for a good laugh, a bit of fun... but we dont think of them later or try to get with them or anything... its just entertainment, something young people do for fun and experience"....
the problem with that excuse is... think about it...
What is so fun about visually cheating on the one you love. All because your not touching them means nothing. When people go to strip clubs, it is for eye candy. it is for a good perve. it is to cheat with there eyes. it is to satisfy there lust without actually (by societys standards) cheating. "its just for fun"...uhh, so staring at naked people who arent your partner is your idea of fun? thats not very faithful is it?
it all starts with the eyes, then the thought fantasy isnt enough.
not liking the idea of your boyfriend watching other naked women is not a "jealous woman" thing. it is an issue of morals and committment. it is okay to be uncomfortable with it. think about it... would anyone be comfortable with there partner watching there hot neighbour sunbake naked? NO. there is no difference in viewing strippers.
plus, those strippers, sadly, have that job, usually because they either dont believe there smart enough to get another job that pays just as good, or have been forced into it coz of circumstances and feel there is no other way. either that, or they believe its okay to be a skank and theyn like to turn on other peoples partners.
each and every reason is wrong and sad. someone going to a strip club, paying to see these girls, are partaking in shaming them. degrading them to a piece of meat. encouraging them in a career that is only going to hurt them in the end. Each person is precious and deserve to be treated that way. Strippers and the people who think attending the strip clubs alike, are just degrading themselves and need to realise they are so much more precious than that. they need to respect themselves and there partners by taking a look at the whole reason for a strip club. to get off visually without committment. its sad.
2006-10-04 08:15:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think only you can answer this question. Are you uncomfortable with him looking at other women? Are you comfortable with your relationship that you don't have any concerns?
I personally can let my hunny go out of state for weeks on end and know that he won't wander. But not all guys have so much control.
That is what will determine if this will be detrimental for your relationship.
2006-10-04 08:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by pariah6.9you 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2006-10-04 07:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by ©ubs Fan™ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, as long as he lets you go to the club when there are male strippers.
2006-10-04 08:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not?
It will show that you are comfortable in yourself that you can let him go with his buddies, drink a little and come hone to you.
Guys love a visual, so one night do a little striptease for him, and next time he might not WANT to go out to the club with his buddies.
2006-10-04 07:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes absolutely.
The only catch is that you have to meet him when he leaves the club. That way, he's all warmed up for you.
Take advantage of the situation!
2006-10-04 07:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by dirftwood22 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look your boyfriend is going in there and taking one of them home. The girls couldn't care less about him. he is just going to have a good time with his buddies. he isn't cheating and he is coming home to you. It's ok
2006-10-04 08:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Glenn H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he feels to go to a strip club, let him go as its his nature and u cant change it.
2006-10-04 08:03:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋