How do you tell him without him lyke freaking out??
2006-10-04 07:56:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you tell him? He probably already knows. There is nothing wrong with it as long as they only look and don't try to hit on you. Most guys like it that their girlfriends are appealing to other men. If you TELL him that guys are looking at you he could think you are trying to make him jealous and trust me...you don't want to go there!!!!
2006-10-04 08:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by Donna J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't my dear.
He already knows what he has and doesn't need it validated by other guys. Some guys do get a bit jealous and some go to extremes. I heard a story about a guy nearly getting into a fight with someone at the Bonaroo festival for guys staring at his girlfriend and she was walking around with him topless.
If guys see an attractive woman they're going to look but make sure your guy understands this on his own you shouldn't have to bring it up. Guys also have egos some more than others. One night i drove a girlfriend home from the club one night she was wearing jeans and a cutoff blouse showing her chisled abs. We stopped at a gas station and every guy there looked as if someone had threatened to castrate them if they took their eyes off her navel. I kind of enjoyed that and she made it a point to be more flirtatious with me while there.
If you think your man will get upset then by all means don't tell him if you'll upset him. He may wonder why you've noticed that guys are wondering what you look like under the cotton and think you were checking them out too. Who looked at who first could be his question.
If he mentions it then assure him of your loyalty by letting him know yes they look but he touches. Which i used as a mantra once you see my source.
2006-10-04 08:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't need to know this information. Guys are always going to look at you or try to talk to you because that's just what they do. As long as these guys are not disrespecting your boyfriend while you two are together then things are cool. I think most of us women if not all have gone through this plenty of times and still go through it all the time. Atleast I do. I just ignore them and show my loyalty to my partner. Don't freak him out for no reason because there is litlle he would be able to do seeing that it's not a crime for guys to look at a woman.
2006-10-04 08:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok! Why would he freak out? If you are pretty yeah people are going to look at you and thats ok!
Dont worry about it! Just as long as your relationship is doing good, thats all that matters!
Hope I helped a little!! <333
2006-10-04 08:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by majorette13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just straight up tell them in a nice way. I have this problem pretty often and I'll just be like, I have an amazing boyfriend when I bring up the subject (on purpose haha)
2006-10-04 08:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Abigail S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would he freak out.....as long as they aren't disrespectful when he's with YOU then what's the problem? I've been married 3 years and I STILL get double takes and waves on the highway when I'm driving......my husband knows and he thinks it's great that other men find me attractive!!! He knows I'm HIS and HIS alone!
2006-10-04 07:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wear a moo-moo and when he asks why...tell him that you dont like other men looking at you.
If he says dont wear such a thing, then you dont have to worry about it. Men look always, whether theyre married or youre married or in a relationship.
2006-10-04 08:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE IS UR MAN AFTER ALL HE LOOKED. WOMEN R GONNA GET ATTENTION SWEETIE REGARDLESS IF UR SINGLE OR COUPLED. MORE WHEN U HAVE A MAN.WOMEN LOVE ATTENTION ANYWAYS. U DONT HAVE TO BE WITH THEM CUZ THEY B LOOKING. LET HIM KNOW HE CAN TRUST U AND TELL HIM THAT OTHERS FIND U ATTRACTIVE. I DEAL WITH THIS ALL THE TIME. DO HE TELL U THAT WOMEN COME ON TO HIM OR WATCH HIM. MINE DOES AND SO THIS IS A COMPETIVE WORLD. GET USED TO IT.
2006-10-04 08:03:15 · answer #8 · answered by kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens, he'll have to get over it, cause I am sure there are a lot of guys checking him out too!
2006-10-04 08:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by sexxymamma86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just the same what you would like to hear ,whe he will tell you other girls are stil "looking" after him...something that wouldn`t make you freak out...
2006-10-04 08:02:34 · answer #10 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋