Ok, well i have a boyfriend, and he's great. I love him 2 death. But then there are these other two guys that I have liked for a long time now. Well..now they want to be with me..and its like TWO dreams come true..but what do I do about this boyfriend. I dont want to hurt him. We have been dating for a little over a month. He's already told me that he loves me..what do I do!?
2006-10-04 07:40:05 · 14 answers · asked by ..::Sierra::.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart and don't let any of them force you into dating them.
No matter what you do your bf will be hurt. (Plus love doesn't come that easy. Don't let his attachment to you, keep you attached to him when it isnt genuine. You'll hurt him more if you stay around.)
2006-10-04 07:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say think about this long and hard, are these guys really worth it? Is this guy your seeing not that great to want to see how things progress. It's not about looks anymore it's how the person makes you feel. If your happy with the guy your with and he makes you laugh, your comfortable around him, and he likes you for you, then stay with him. If these other guys make you more happy and you know they won't change a thing about you ma bey you shouldn't be with the guy your with. Just don't string the guys around, they have feelings too and treat them like how you would like to be treated in that situation. Put yourself in the other shoe.
2006-10-04 14:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by HotTherapist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should stay with ur bf cause he loves you but also think if you love him.Or where you scare that he told you those three words? Get over those 2guys they made u wait and now out of the blue they want to be with u. But think how you really fell about them.
2006-10-04 14:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Denise V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heart-breaker........lol.........just joking. Well for one why would you break his heart. I mean he told you that he loves you and everything. Maybe your not ready to be in a steady relationship, you still want to date and see other people......get a taste of something different.....there's nothing wrong with that as long as you are protecting yourself.......but I guess let your boyfriend know that you are not ready to be tied down to one person......and you don't want to be in a relationship with him and end up sneaking behind his back with another man......your getting the truth out in the open.....then apologize.
2006-10-04 14:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you FOOL! You've only been dating for a month. Choose between the 2 other guys
2006-10-04 14:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly "love him 2 death" then you wouldn't be thinking of the other 2 guys or it wouldn't matter that they're now into you. don't lead this guy on...if you know who u want to be w/ then be w/ that person. i think it's worst to be w/ somebody when your thinking about being w/ other people. so let the guy go if u don't want to be w/ him.
2006-10-04 14:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by shabambam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with the guy you're with...eveything that glitters isn't gold. Where were these 2 guys when you were single?
2006-10-04 14:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Marcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if yoyur boyfriend loves you and you love him that you should forget about the two other guys and just stay with your current boyfriend.
2006-10-04 14:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by sensual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, if you are still young date them all and see which one is truely better for you, but if not i know it sounds kind of corny but follow your heart.
2006-10-04 14:44:14 · answer #9 · answered by wgarvin83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys always want you when you are not available anyore...and if u leave ur bf for th guy then he'll get what he wants and move the hell on...beleive me!
2006-10-04 14:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋