Would you be up to a threesome with your boyfriend and another girl? wouldnt you feel intimidated or scared incase your boyfriend gave more attention to the other girl or was more attracted to her than you? please answer this its important. x
2006-10-04 07:38:18 · 60 answers · asked by sensual 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope
2006-10-04 07:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Circlometry?? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey , I know my name says Harold ... but that's just to keep the perverts away out there..don't worry i am a girl...and NO do not engage in a threesome if you value your relationship! it will not do the relationship any good it will not strengthen it by any means and the only reason you or anybody should do that is for pure pleasure (and its better if you don't know the person/people) if you and your boyfriend have a rocky relationship and he's suggesting the threesome he might already have his eyes elsewhere,anyway ...however i will add that i am married (happily)for 5 years and even my husbands fantasy is a threesome (which he will never get) but once a fantasy is fulfilled there is no more fantasy and a new one will most likely form. So all men want to have a threesome ..if you don't want to... don't. He will either accept it- or he wont. But that is in no way your fault. HE decides how he feels YOU decide how you feel .. and that's just the way it is. Sorry these relationship answers tend to be long.. Good Luck!
PS if you happen to decide to try the threesome.. (by the way i have done the foursome thing with my ex boyfriend before i was married) be sure that person(s) is free of STD's and use condoms just in case.
2006-10-04 08:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by harold y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!!!! do a threesome with someone you really care about because you are opening the door for someone else to take him. This is just a male fantasy he wants to play out but he should understand that you are in a relationship and that is something you do when you are single. The feelings you have expressed are most likely bothering you now and will only get worse if you follow through with the threesome. It will ultimately lead to the end of your relationship.
In other words, if you are a freak and are not interesting in keeping your boyfriend then do it. If you want your relationship, then don't do it. If he wants you, he will understand.
Good luck.
2006-10-04 07:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by dspowe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel that way. Most girls will not have a threesome with another girl for the same reasons.
However, it is one of the biggest fantasies a man has. You have to look at it from a different angle. He will never want to give you up if you do choose to do it. Because chances are he wont find another GF that would.
Talk to your BF and let him know how you feel. You can also put limits on the "act" what you will and will not tolerate. No penetration etc. He is probably more likely going to be into you and the other female being intimate.
2006-10-04 07:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man suggests a threesome, it means he wants to cheat with permission. Tell him only if you can have one with another guy.Tell him you want your turn first to make sure you get it. Make sure the other guy is someone he knows. See if he still wants one then. And if he does, move on. There are more fish in the sea. Besides I think you are a teenager, only a girl. Wait until you are older and can handle the complexities of a relationship before you take one on. Come on girl you are only young once. Dont spend your early years being held down in sexual relationships that you are only going to live to regret. Do girlie things and have fun with your friends. Men will always be around and available. They've always been. but I think after pulling that one on him he'll forget about it.
2006-10-04 07:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband wanted the same thing. Yes it would be a problem. If he makes her scream. That would make you mad. If he seems to be liking it more than when you two are in bed, that also will be a problem. Honestly, if this is just your boyfriend, I wouldn't chance it. I haven't done it, but I know I really wouldn't chance it if there are no DEEPER ties between you two. A boyfriend can get what he wants and then if something happens in your relationship, then you have to live with that. Where as if married he can't just leave. But thats not o.k.ing a threesome. If you have to get online and ask if its a problem, then its not right with your soul. Tell him NO. Just try new things in the bedroom between the two of you.
2006-10-04 07:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship between two people is a good one then why bring in a third person?
You need to discuss your feelings with your boyfriend. If it is a committed healthy relationship then there shouldn't be a need to sleep with other people. If he wants to have a threesome suggest that you bring another guy into it and see how he feels.
2006-10-04 07:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by ZsMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man wants the threesome and you don't, ask him to consider returning the favor. Tell him you would consider being with him and another girl of his choice if you can have him get with you and the man of your choice. A truth is that a man can not imagine his girl with another man...That is if he truly loves her. So that will get the threesome ideal out of the picture. If he says okay that he would do it. He has homosexual tendencies and you should drop the zero and get with a hero.
2006-10-04 07:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by dee-dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have a threesome for you bf find a girl that isnt as pretty as you. Make sure you do the lookin for the girl and not him that way you dont feel like he picked her just because shes hot or has bigger boobs than you or whatever.
2006-10-04 07:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i wouldnt want a threesome . Hell yeah i would feel intimidated cause what if he started to giving moe attention to the other. It would make me fell you helpless. And he moght think she better in bed than you.
2006-10-04 07:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by Denise V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not something I would consider doing. I value myself, my relationship and the act of making love much more than that. I don't think I'd continue being with a boyfriend who wanted to do other girls and me at the same time-- I would think he doesn't value and cherish me. A man who loves me would never ever push me to do something that made me feel intimidated or scared-- and certainly not to screw around with other people. Yuk.
2006-10-04 07:42:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋