I was on his notebook today and was looking for a page in the history when I clicked on this forum's url and found some stuff he posted that really pissed me off. What should I do? I'm obviously going to confront him about this later but should I just end it now since I get the impression he doesn't exactly have a high level of respect for me. And should I post something on that forum to straighten out some of the crap he said?
2006-10-04 07:37:09 · 46 answers · asked by teenuhrocks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay that topic was supposed to say "I discovered that my b/f has been posting pics of me on a forum and has been saying some nasty thing."
Instead it became an atrocity of typos.
2006-10-04 07:40:14 · update #1
Well, I officially ended it last night. I made a long post on the forum explaining what an asshole he was for posting the pics and 99% of the things he said were lies. Then at the end of my message I told him to pack his crap and leave and that it would be in his best interests to avoid speaking to me on the way out.
I didn't even say anything when I saw him, I just let him go online and about 20 minutes later he comes out with a pissed off look on his face. It was pretty amusing.
And no, I will not post the url of the forum. If I didn't want the people on there reading the stuff he posted then I certainly don't want others going there.
2006-10-05 02:42:06 · update #2
dump the loser! obviously he doesnt respect you at all.
2006-10-04 07:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by its_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know that he has no respect for you, so why stick around? Staying with him after knowing all of this, will only be you disrespecting yourself.
I wouldn't post on the forum. It will probably just bring more attention to your situation, and it really will not change people's minds or stop them from saying things. It will only make the situation worse.
Confront him, leave him, and move on!
2006-10-04 07:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by missportal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you care if some strangers in a forum have the wrong idea about you? That is not important. Chances are you will never meet or have anything to do with any of them anyway. What is important that you dump that sorry *** loser and find some one to treat you with the respect you deserve!
2006-10-04 07:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you could but understand some people are different people when they log on the internet and sometimes they say things for sake of responce not really intending it to be you but sounding like it
and also if you got in a fight over something he may have vented out somethings he may not have ment and the internet is usually a safe place to do that unless your mate discovers it!!
2006-10-04 07:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront him and you need to go after him slyly.
Don't be the screaming, yelling *****. Tell him, you saw what he wrote about you, it hurt you and if he really feels that way then maybe the two of you shouldn't be together.
Leave it open ended, simple and REMAIN CALM. You want to give him a slight guilt trip for hurting your feelings.
The outcome of the relationship will depend on the answers he gives you at the confrontation. Good luck.
2006-10-04 07:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by moderncutthroat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure I got every pic he has of you back and then oh ya I would post the most embarasing pics of him I could find or if I didn't have any, make a night of it!! hehehe. I am sure there are things he likes he wouldn't want people seeing!! make a night of it. Then I would break up with the jerk and make sure you send him an invite to look at the pics!! hehehehe
2006-10-04 07:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by Bonnie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just say if this is what you think of me, well this is what I think of you.....hand him a bag of crap ( or used tampon).
Tell him here's the door, and make sure it doesn't hit you in your a ss as you leave. as the song goes...hit the road jack and don't you come back no more.
He should never say anything to anyone about what he thinks about you. He should have kept his big fat mouth shut. Posting things about a female is wrong......even if it were true, its best to keep it to yourself. If he had a problem, why didn't he go to you about it? Gee, if you look like your pic...I'd have noooo problem with you.....even if you walked around butt naked around the house.....lol.
2006-10-04 07:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by John M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even consider having a b/f that plastered your picture across the internet and then said nasty things about you? Love and loyalty go hand in hand.............no loyalty no love. Dump his butt and get a real b/f. Also I doubt that there is any gain from trying to go behind him and fix what he had posted. Go forward and don't look back!
2006-10-04 07:43:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't respect you now he never will. Kick him to the curb & move on. I'd try to straighten out the crap he posted giving your reasons as to what happened so peeps don't think you're to blame.
2006-10-04 07:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats a picture of you in your profile, you are very pretty. I guess he wanted to show you off to his friends and family. These days it is possible to host pictures on free websites, maybe that is what he was trying to. Can you talk to him first before you draw up any conclusions. Ask him if he has a website he hosts his personal photos. Then why he sent yours up without asking first. I hope the photos are not of you naked. If they are, then he has no excuse! Kill him.
2006-10-04 07:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch man. Yeah Id post on the forum, thats good.
2006-10-04 07:38:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋