Any one ever have success with taking it 'slow' with someone. Starting out and having it develop into more? Neither of us has dated any one else, and we are really good friends. We get along famously and always laugh. We care very deeply about each other and are always there for each other.
But if you don't rush into things, do you have a chance to make it work? We have been 'taking it slow' for 6 months now and that 'spark' that we have is still very much present.
2006-10-04 07:32:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should add that we are physical. We kiss and cuddle and he is VERY affectionate. We definitely do 'get it on' but I have made the decision to not 'sleep' together.
2006-10-04 07:44:18 · update #1
Yes, because you build a solid, strong foundation based on seeing the truth about each other, rather than the fantasy you wish were there. Love is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection. Love is the maturation of friendship.
I dated my husband for 2 years before we got engaged-- we wanted it to be right, and felt no need to rush things.
2006-10-04 07:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
nicely somebody says to take issues slow is by potential of not kissing like 3 days after u commence going out. and surely get to appreciate her and love for what she isn't her actual skills.
2016-10-15 12:37:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Your relationship is based on Mutual Respect-Then Time spent together is Well Spent!
Therefore, You must Go easy and find your feet!
Only then will you Both know when the time is right to move to the next level in this Relationship!
Love is Forever,Treat it with the utmost respect and Understanding!
The Rewards are FOREVER!
2006-10-04 07:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep up the great work at taking it slow. More power to you. Don't feel the need to rush it. Sounds like a good thing -- don't change it.
2006-10-04 07:35:16 · answer #4 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say that if it has already been six months it wouldn't hurt to start getting into it a little more. My boyfriend and I were the same way. It doesn't hurt to take it slow and to wait to see what it could be.
Best of luck!
2006-10-04 07:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ash84 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would certainly leave after some months...if we wouldn`t go to next level...but that would be for me,I would get bored...
I think it is time for you two to get at least at next level...I mean at least kiss...
It is ok to wait and take it slow,but not too long,cause this will make you to best friends and not a couple...
so don`t wait too long.
kiss
2006-10-04 07:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is different for every person. Personally, my relationships usually started out fast (and lasted a while) The last one ended up being a keeper :) We're getting married next May!
2006-10-04 07:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Huliganjetta 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you still have that 'spark', why change a good thing? If you are both in agreement over waiting, I don't see a problem. I think its great to wait!
2006-10-04 07:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by ell090702 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as the "spark" is still very much present, you both will have the chance, but don't just wait, take actions.
2006-10-04 07:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by themysterious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
taking it slow is one way to see if you are compatible with someone. but if you love him too that is okay...never put a time limit on when to fall in love. I never though it was possible till i experienced it... If you want to per sue more than go for it... go with your instincts.
2006-10-04 07:34:58 · answer #10 · answered by DO IT! 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋