I have this guy friend that I am really close with. I have very strong feelings for him and I think he feels the same way about me. My sister, brother-in-law, niece, and friends think we are both in love with each other. What can I do or say to show him how I truly feel? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!
2006-10-04 07:18:37 · 16 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for all the great advice!
2006-10-05 09:18:18 · update #1
It is much more common for guys to fall for there female friends then for girls to fall for there guy friends. So there is a good chance he feels the same way.
So you can either tell him that your feelings might be more than just plutonic,
or,
be a little more affectionate and create that moment where you are close and he has the perfect opportunity to kiss you.
2006-10-04 07:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to dinner - make it romantic. At a good moment, lean across, look deeply into his eyes, and say something like you really care a great deal for him. Maybe even put your hand on his as you say it. He'll get the message.
2006-10-04 07:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by hausfrau31557 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a love letter! If the people surrounding you two believe that you guys love each other, then it must be pretty obvious!!! Take a change on love!!! I don't know you, but I don't think you will regret it.
2006-10-04 07:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by eva.licious! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least u know this ones name hey as a guy I can tell u we love when a girl comes out & and read to us cause we as men are blind when it comes to reading between the lines.
2006-10-04 10:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him that you like him as more than a friend and would like to see what can happen between you two . . .You could start by asking him, "Do you see our friendship going anywhere?" or "Do you think that friends could be more?" OR This one really works. . .JUST START TALKING ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS AND HOW YOU WOULD LIKE TO START ONE UP . . .Believe me, I'm getting that hint for a really good guy friend of mine right now . . .Hope that this helps . ..
2006-10-04 07:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by techgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him out to a very nice place to eat. Dress up for it!!!! get your hair done, nails, a new (sexy but not slutty dress), shoes... the works!
Order a good bottle of wine..
And after the first couple of sips... just tell him!!
2006-10-04 07:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to 123greetings.com and send him an ecard. There's all types and find something that says what you feel. He'll be flattered and you'll feel wonderful.
So happy for you both!
2006-10-04 07:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good one!!
Ever thought about letting him kiss you?
After that, rest assured there will be ample opportunity for conversation where you can declare your undying love.
2006-10-04 07:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him???go for it there might not be a next time and you'll end wondering what if you had make your move..now's the chance....but play the game as if you have nothing to lose...goodluck
2006-10-04 07:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by rusty_knoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you think your falling in love with him. See what his reaction is. Take it from there.
Good luck
2006-10-04 07:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋