what should i do ! my best bud! her bfriend and i met @ a party and we hit it off there. i know she is my friend but i think he's the one. i love him very much. he's a great kisser. plus, he always put a smile on my face. and his body.... is fabulous! and trust me ive seen everything. he's great. the gratest lips. the best just. the biggest..... well i aint goin there, but he's my man and i cant give him up. but she is my best bud!the only one i could trust and believe me it's kinda hard for me to trust people. what sould i do?
2006-10-04 07:16:04 · 22 answers · asked by cb girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur acting slutty and childish. Give him up and come clean.
2006-10-04 07:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
TRUST ME!!! If he's cheatin WITH you he's going to cheat ON you. He may be "the one" but you've started the relationship with him on a train track that is going nowhere. ANY relationship you have with this guy is a train wreck waiting to happen. If you keep messin' with him you are going to lose your best friend (if you haven't already) and you WILL end up losing him to some other woman. You and he BOTH will KNOW for a FACT that given the right set of circumstances EITHER of you will CHEAT. Relationships that start in a LIE always die in a LIE. They NEVER EVER last very long. NOT GONNA HAPPEN WITH YOU.
2006-10-04 07:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by ScubaGuy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not "the one". Unless you prefer cheaters. Also, you are not showing much self respect for going out with a known cheater, and you are not respecting the needs, the heart, and the boundaries of your friend. Drop him like a hot pancake!!! I'll tell you about trust:
Trust takes a long time to build...yet is quickly and easily broken. Your current decisions are not wise and will lead to heart ache for ALL involved. Good luck.
2006-10-04 07:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by branchcaptain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should enjoy the ride because you seem committed to a destructive course!
Be prepared to lose your"best bud" & "the one".
P.s, just so you know he's enjoying every minute of your silence at your "best buds" expense. If you don't believe it ask him to tell her he wants to be with you.
Carpe Diem!
2006-10-04 07:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by afrodyzyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you keep saying shes you best buddie and that you can really trust her.....i wonder what shes saying about you...the same? I hope not because she's wrong than. I am not going to tell you that you need to split it up with him. But what i am saying is if you care at all for your friend you will tell her the truth and how it all happend. She needs to know, she will prob be really pissed but at least she found out this way and not another way..she will find out. So you should be the one to tell your side before she wont even want to hear it from you. Did you two get together before they did or did they date than you two hocked up? If they were together than things happend with you two, than not to be mean but she doesnt deserve either one of yous. if you considered her as a friend than even if you were going crazy over him and hes the one, than you should of got him to split up with her for a while and put your emotions on hold till they broke up for a while. But if you two got together first than she did later with him. Still wrong of you not to tell her, and you need to tell her everything. You might lose her as a friend if you tell he, but still a slight chance she might forgive you depending on what really happend, but if you dont tell her she will find out and for sure you wont have her as a friend and more like a enemy. Its your choice....
2006-10-04 07:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but you sound very selfish and I think you are a terrible friend. You seem to value a boy (which won't last) over your best bud.
2006-10-04 07:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!! This is definitely the winner! YOU ARE INSANE!! Its wrong and I hope this comes back to you and him twicefold.. Get out of it now and come clean!!! Find someone else. There is alot of fish in the sea. Don't swim through unchartered waters. Don't be selfish, find your own.. not your best friends man.. Get a life!
2006-10-04 07:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it boils down to which relationship you value more over the long run. Trust me when the best friend finds out, your relationship with her will be over anyway so you should just come clean.
Remember what comes around goes around. If he cheated with you, there's a decent chance he'll cheat with someone else, once your relationship gets stale.
2006-10-04 07:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by Marcus 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is not your best bud if you're trying to steal her man. What's wrong with you? Have you got any sense??? What if she did that to you? You've already stolen him, so come clean with your bud and deal with the consequences...
2006-10-04 07:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry can't say you are her best bud if you are messing around with her bf. You better come clean with her before he comes clean. Don't let her hear it from someon other than you! Good luck!
2006-10-04 07:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by Help??? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell her, if you do you should sit down with her and tell her, it is not healthy to keep things from your best friend that you have nown longer, it might hurt for the both of you, but it is best to tell the truth, if you lie to one another, you or your friend is just digging yourselfs a deeper whole, rather then working things out together. but that is just my opinion.
2006-10-04 07:20:29 · answer #11 · answered by DJ 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋