2006-10-04 07:07:52 · 17 answers · asked by Kiley R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
explain why...
2006-10-04 07:08:06 · update #1
of course it's okay! you're taken, not dead.
if you are in a secure relationship, there's no need for anyone to feel threatened by other people. my bf and i even tell each other when we find others attractive. we both know that the other would never leave for someone else, so why worry?
2006-10-04 07:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by woodpecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking someone is attractive and deciding to betray your S.O. to pursue them are two totally different things.
It is natural to make judgements about attractiveness - and we all do it all the time.
Acting on them may also be natural, from a purely "survival of genetic information within the gene pool" stance. However, I generally consider such actions as "not ok" if you're already "taken."
I THINK Cindy Crawford is hot.
I would not leave my wife (who is EFFING hot) to pursue her.
2006-10-04 07:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by jbtascam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been happily married for over 27 years. Just because someone gets married it does not mean that every other human being suddenly becomes unattractive. It means you have made a commitment to the one you love not to ever pursue any feeling or thought of attraction with another person.
2006-10-04 07:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by toff 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is okay to think someone is attractive if you are taken. As long as it is just looking.
2006-10-04 07:10:27 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to window shop, but don't go in the store to buy anything. You would be inhuman if you didn't look at other people,and not find someone attractive...or a liar.
2006-10-04 07:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by scriper23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay, if all you do is THINK that they are attractive, and you don't do anything about it. Like you can think a movie star is cute, while having a boyfriend, that is okay, and you can think that guy at the coffee shop is cute, as long as you don't flirt with him.
2006-10-04 07:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by bcrazycaroline18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to think someone is attractive even if you are with someone. That's just how you feel, you can't help or avoid it. You can however; avoid taking it further as talking to them, or telling them they are attractive. Just keep it all to yourself and you won't get in trouble.
2006-10-04 07:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by CMA 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
absolutely. just because you are in a relationship with someone doesn't mean that you are going to suddenly stop finding people attractive. i think its healthy to still look and be looked at when you're "taken". it keeps you on your toes and reminds you that you're desirable.
2006-10-04 07:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by KKM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are always attracted to something we know we can't have,as long as you take no action,nothing wrong with looking!
2006-10-04 07:09:28 · answer #9 · answered by happy1here♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just cause you're taken doesn't mean you can't look at beautiful people. It's the touching other beautiful people that isn't good.
2006-10-04 07:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋