i asked a queston yesterday about what to do about an ex that came back. the answers i got were pretty much what i thought. SEX!! i don't doubt it. however this person can have sex with just about anyone he wants and have no strings attached. my question today is why would he want to give that up for a relationship? he said he wanted to give it another try, yet he i don't see any action. he's a very complicated guy and even though we had a share problems we always understood each other and have so many things in common. i love him but i don't have the time to sit and wait around for him to make up his mind. i've already told him this. what else can i do?
2006-10-04 07:02:46 · 8 answers · asked by Julz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes safe with you, even if u r his ex, in every way even sex. But if he does not show any signs of wanting a relationship id tell him to go find one of those many he can have sex with.
2006-10-04 07:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys have alot of baggage ie. have relationships that are not working out and may have commitments they can't just walk away from. If this guy is complicated because of that, and therefore cannot seem to make a commitment and you have told him you have a life too and can't wait around for him then I think he likes to be with you, and enjoys spending time with you and may genuinely love you. Keep the communication up since you love him and with time (but give yourself a deadline, say 6 months to one year) he should commit to you and if he has not till then, then tell him you can't keep it up even if you love him. You also have a life!!!!
Try not to push him to make a choice now as you will make that easy for him and you don't want to lose him if you love him.
2006-10-04 07:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by jackbauer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r confused about him.u say u love him and and u cnt w8 around 4 him?? It sounds strange 2 me coz if u luv him lik u say u do then u can w8 around for him,it wont hurt a bit if u rili feel that way!! Maybe he luvz u,talk 2 him and tell him the same thing ur tellin us..things myt jst go bak 2 normal...therz smtn special bout u that he likes so find out and b proud.Keep your head up!! l8rz!
2006-10-04 07:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by dem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to answer your question because the majority of people here have no idea what your question was yesterday. I am confused.
2006-10-04 07:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by meisa777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much, it is pretty much up to him now. If he wants to come back and you want him back, then why the hell not get back together?
2006-10-04 07:05:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is love. It looks alot like stalking.
2006-10-04 07:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he has changed his mind on what type of person he is ....or want to be...
2006-10-04 07:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they were right,you are being used...with guys,it's never enough
2006-10-04 07:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by rocket6tx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋