I have a girlfriend of four years but it seems the only time we get along is when I am talking to someone on the side,Why is that?and I think she knows I am like that.So is it really wrong then?
2006-10-04 07:01:57 · 20 answers · asked by forlife_918 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you are probably treating her better when you're seeing someone on the side, because of the guilt. Yes it is really wrong, and yes you should stop doing it. Hopefully your girlfriend will wise up, and find someone that can treat her like she deserves all the time, and not just when they're cheating.
2006-10-04 07:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that it is really right but i have been there too it kinda puts a break in the hassles of everyday life when u got someone else on the side and u can go to that person for what u cant get from the one that u are with but i mean if u aint happy with the one that u been with for 4 years dont u think that maybe it is time to move on to someone else instead of leading her on
2006-10-04 07:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like that because she doesn't know what she has until it's gone. She probably doesn't make you feel good or pay attention to you until she see you doing it to someone else and that right there is wrong on her behalf. Now getting to you...ur wrong cuz you shoudln't be cheating just to get her attention..there are other ways to do that like talking to her about how you feel for starters....good luck! and no more talking to other women on the side :)
2006-10-05 04:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the relationship is not meant to be if you are only happy with her, when you are cheating on her? Obviously, if the relationship progresses to marriage, you wouldn't want to continue the cheating? My advice is to consider ending the relationship.
2006-10-04 07:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on man you have issues & if your girl knows your messing around she has self esteem issues.
Just be single and date whoever you want. Then you will get along with everybody
2006-10-04 07:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by kalik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, things are only okay in 'your eyes' because you have someone on the side and no not concentrate on only her!
2006-10-04 07:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong because you are not being fair to her the one on the side or even to yourself. YES it is wrong.
2006-10-04 07:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit wasting your time in relationships that dont work. fix your current relationship before you try to get with another. or end it. why settle for something or someone you really dont want? if you really want it then make it work.
2006-10-04 07:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by deathwishpussy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its "wrong" because the fact remains that you and ur steady girl aren't compatible. in turn you have a booty call on the side, but if it were all good between you and ur steady, u wouldn't need a booty call!
2006-10-04 07:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by bjsmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only wrong if it hurts someone. If it works for you guys, then why the hell not?
2006-10-04 07:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋