Ok.. my daughter is "dating" this dude.. I dont care that he is a different race ... BUT my concern is that he is 35 an she is just 20
What can I say to get her to understand that this is not very smart
2006-10-04 06:58:25 · 27 answers · asked by Tupperware Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let the brake shoe wear out.
2006-10-04 07:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try and brake them up it will only bring them closer together. Your daughter is an adult and as much as you want what is best for her and as hard as it may be you have to let her live her life and let her make her own mistakes that's the only way she will learn. You can tell her what you think but don't try and brake them up she will resent you for it and put a strain on your relationship with your daughter.
2006-10-04 14:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you said "I don't care that he is a different race" show that you indeed care. Don't break them up. That's evil. Why would anyone want to interfere with love? Why isn't it smart? I don't think that's your decision. Just be happy for her and support it like a loving mother would do...
2006-10-04 14:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This advise you may not want to hear, but it's the truth. Nothing you say or do will make them break up. The more you try to break them up the harder it will be to break them up. The more you push, the more she'll stay in it just to dispise you. My suggestion is to just let her find out the hard way, which is on her own. You could always hire or find someone to make passes on him and see if he would sleep around or not, but I suggest to leave them well alone, she'll find things out on her own. It just isn't going to help when you are telling her to break up with him, it'll only push them closer together.
2006-10-04 14:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by danielle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might've gotten this answer before but in order to break them up, you should sleep with him. If not, just mind your own freakin' business lady and leave the love birds alone.
2006-10-04 14:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do in this situation is stay out of it...because the more you are against it ...The more she is gonna wanna stay with him. eventually she will see the light and leave him alone..realize our children have to make mistakes in order to learn from them...Be patient it will happen sooner than you think..
2006-10-04 14:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by All hail 2 the "Queen" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing... i'm 22 and my BF was 32 and my parents tried the same thing and I stayed with because they said not to so the best thing to let it run its course....
2006-10-04 14:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by keturah66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your opinion its not smart due to age, but perhaps this guy has something more then tube steak to offer her. You should stay out of it and worry about your marriage/relationship!
2006-10-04 14:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I feel that. But ur daughter is an adult and as much as u want to protect her, she has tp see things on her own.
2006-10-04 14:00:53 · answer #9 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's 20 years old, she can date whoever she wants. She dosen't need your premission anymore, also, age is just a number, it dosen't matter.
2006-10-04 14:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Yoshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋