The last time I had sex was before the summer started, but that relationship ended and I didn't have sex the entire summer. I met a new guy before school started again, and it was a strange experience. Although I'm not a virgin and I went through all the pain of the first time and had sex several times after that, I actually bled quite a bit with this new guy. (My period was just beginning but I was too embarassed to say, plus it seemed legit.) I know he was curious as to why I knew so much about it, but I'm sure he thinks I'm still a virgin and likes that thought. (At some point he said something like "I'm glad I was the first." or something along the lines of that.) Should I just tell him? He'll probably think a lot less of me... :(
2006-10-04 06:57:12 · 18 answers · asked by JustWondering 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't lie to him....but if he doesn't ask then DON'T TELL!!
2006-10-04 06:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by CMA 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha wow thats a crazy story. BUT somethings are best left as is. We all have skeletons in our closets. He's in too deep already to tell him the truth, that would just crush him and make him think bad of you that "you let it go that far" soooo just shhhhhh and just dont bring it up ever again.
-Stay Up and Much Luv-
2006-10-04 07:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by K!LA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have not had sex for a while you tighten back up...I would tell him if it is brought up again.. he is the one who assumed that you were still a virgin. So in my opinion I dont think that he would have any right to get mad at you...
2006-10-04 07:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by KitKat4106 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him that you weren't a virgin. If he would think less of you for it, why would you want to be with a guy who is like that?
2006-10-04 06:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just don't say anything, that way you're not lying. Just smile sweetly and look down a bit. Won't hurt him if he doesn't know.
2006-10-04 07:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by Ziva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him think your a virgin. It could work to your advantage in bed.
2006-10-04 06:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's your boyfriend for the long haul...if it's just a fling...no...let him live in his fantasy world where it's cool to deflower a virgin.
2006-10-04 07:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by D.E.O.N. Sphinxxx 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why spoil a good thing with the truth?
2006-10-04 06:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth!
Nothing survives long if it is build on a lie.
2006-10-04 07:02:26 · answer #9 · answered by Brikz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would tell him, if you plan on staying with him. If not, then don't say a word!
2006-10-04 07:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kinda went though the same thing, but i had already told him i wasnt and hadnt done it in a while.
do u wanna tell em?!
2006-10-04 07:01:45 · answer #11 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋