I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he has been seeing a girl and not telling me, texting her frequently.
I am 30, my boyfriend is 45, the other girl is 30.
She has invited him for dinner tomorrow night at her house - he doesnt know I know...what does she want from him?
2006-10-04 06:56:20 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She may want him for dinner but does he want her for afters
2006-10-04 06:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by angelcake 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi its obvious what she wants your old enough to know that. Why are you letting this carry on. You know so sort it out or are you planning on doing something. Like following him to the house ans then have a word with them both. I would let him know right this second. I must be upsetting for you knowing this so get it off your chest ans find someone that will treat you with respect he is scum of the earth.But its obvious if he is seeing another girl he isnt going to tell you thats how it works. If you arnt that fussed. Just say its ok you go to your tarts for tea and im going out with my hot lover also. LOL. But really sort this out before it gets worse.
2006-10-04 14:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut instinct - what do you think she wants from him?!!
Does she know you are in the picture & have been with him for 2 years? If not, she needs to. If she does, & she's continuing to pursue your man - something is wrong with that picture. He shouldn't be texting her, nor should he have agreed to go to dinner with her - at her house, no less. I'd say he's already made up his mind to go for it & do her - you need to talk with him about what you know & see what he wants. If he says he wants you then tell him SHE has to go. Good luck - I've been in that type of situation before & it really sucks.
2006-10-04 13:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not telling you anything about this and doing this behind your back then there definetely is something wrong. I would not trust this situation if I were you. I would confront him about tomorrow night-regardless how you found about it-and tell him that he needs to tell you the truth with what is going on and make your decision after that. Only you will know if he is telling you the truth at that time or if he is lying.
2006-10-04 14:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh girl...if he's talking to her and not telling you about it, then that's definitely a red flag. Just confront him on the subject, and tell him that you don't appreciate him running around and texting other women. If he really loves you, he will take your words to heart.
2006-10-04 13:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I should dump your lousy boyfriend if I were you. He is having a great time with such a naive girlfriend and another one on the side. Lose him permanently, and wise up on life girlfriend!
2006-10-04 14:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by yvonne c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question....she is after your man and you know it! and if he is texting her frequently..you need to ask him about it. u r obviously insecure about it, which is why u r getting into his personal business in the first place... you need to be honest to him..you r too old for this. i cook for a man when i want him. a good meal is the way to a man's heart. your guy is a bit old to be texting anyway....you need to put your foot down
2006-10-04 14:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean you dont know? She is offering it out on a plate........
Come on girl figure it out you dont need to ask that question, why dont you give him an hour there then order a taxi get the driver to go to the door, taxi for so and so to such and such, "your address" lol then they will both know you know about it...........even if he does have his own car.
2006-10-04 15:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by Caro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a joke right ?
Thanx for the 2 points ... lol
Dr Bad
2006-10-04 14:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of that Player. What are you doing with such an old guy anyway
2006-10-04 13:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by J.J. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋