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Do you continue to date such a person, is this ok? If she says she still wants to date you? Being honest, anything wrong with that?

2006-10-04 06:27:09 · 14 answers · asked by Jr Thompson 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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As long as there was no agreement to being exclusive, there should be no problem. It's a very healthy process.

She does like you, but wants to make sure you're the person she is looking for without wasting her time on just you. If she spends months on just you and you turn out to be not right for her, then she wasted those months when she could have been exploring other possibilities.

I would suggest you do the same, it goes both ways. It's very healthy, and very acceptable.

2006-10-04 06:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 3 0

Dating is like an interview for a relationship, to help you decide what you're looking for, and who would be a good fit with you. Dating more than one person is fine, it's just a low degree of commitment. Later, if you hit it off, then would be the time to ask for an exclusive relationship. There's really no need to be exclusive right from day 1. Keep it light and fun for awhile -- there's plenty of time to get serious if you start liking each other a great deal, or loving each other.

2006-10-04 13:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

There is absolutely nothing wrong with dating a few people at the same time, that is, if it is agreeable to both of you. How else is a person going to know what he or she wants in a person. I find this true especially when you are young. Don't ever rush into anything with one person, get to know many people, only that way can you have an educated choice.

2006-10-04 13:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by june clever 4 · 2 0

I dated this guy for 2 months, who really did like me... We were both dating other people.. Right away, I stopped dating other people because my feelings grew for him. It got to the point that I told him I wanted us to be exclusive.. He wasn't ready, so I just got out. I'm glad I did. A few months later I met my current bf and we've been together for over a year... And that guy is still single messing around w/ other girls... I have no regrets...

2006-10-04 13:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by qbanita0113 4 · 0 0

Yes and No !X

It depends on how the other person feels, frankly I don't want someone elses sloppy seconds.
and more than one, can't you make up your mind.

to me it gives out all the wrong signals-

But if you 2 are ok with that, use a condom.
hopefully one person doesn't start getting jealous- cause thats when the sh!t start to get Messed up

GL

2006-10-04 13:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

It depends. Some couples are cool with open relationships. That is my personal philosophy. I would use dating to determine who is the right one for me. Like process of elimination.

2006-10-04 14:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would say to keep dating that person, but to be cautious. If you really liked that person. I would still date other people too! I wouldn't definitely not throw myself into it though...

2006-10-04 13:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

tell them to go date that person and call when the are ready for a real relationship

2006-10-04 13:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by miraclebaby_2006 5 · 0 0

Depends! If your looking for a relationship, move on. If you just wanna hit it, so who cares if she sees someone else if your not gonna marry her!

2006-10-04 13:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it is sort of like baseball, they too have tryouts, as well this can work both ways if she is seeing others so can you

2006-10-04 13:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0 0

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