they want to kick her out . put her adderall for past three days and has not help. some ones advice and tell me im not the only one
2006-10-04 06:05:24 · 14 answers · asked by shannon & eric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
First thing I would want to ask you is whether or not she has ever been evaluated for any developmental dissabilities. Sometimes there is more to a childs behavioral outbursts than ADD/ADHD.
if you are in a public school ask them to give her an individual evaluation and assessment for behavioral issues that could stem from a medical issue. That will at least buy you some time before they try to "kick her out"
it is normal for some children to have aversions to going to school, I tihnk we've all been there. However, extreme fits and aggression can be a sign that there is something more going on. DON'T panic though....many times, these types of behavioral issues can be corrected with the proper modifications to both school setting and social interaction.
Good Luck!
2006-10-04 06:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don`t you ask if you or your husband can sit with your daughter for an hour or so, just until she settles in and then you can quietly disappear. Has there been in incident that could have caused her to be so upset? Could you volunteer to be a classroom aid or such like and then your daughter would know that you are near bye in the case of an "emergency"! My daughter started school at 4 years 6months old and that was just 3 months after her father had died. I went into the classroom with the blessing of the teacher to help the children read on one afternoon and then to show them how to use the computer on another afternoon. It may take some time to settle your little girl but use all the avenues available and above all be patient with her. It is a big cruel world out there.
2006-10-04 06:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by PHILIP C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PAY ATTENTION!!!
Someone (a teacher) or students are the cause, not your lovely daughter. Find out what happens at her school. Someone is scaring her shitless.
Please be attentive when kids freak out, don't always assume its a disorder they have, they are always freaked out about something.
My friend (single Mum) had a nanny and everytime she left for work, the kids (5 and 3) would run up to her car and scream to go along with her. However, she would always call the nanny to control the kids. Then 1 year later, she found out the nanny used to beat them shitless and told them she would kill them if they opened their mouths. The day she was fired, her 5 year old stayed locked up in his room for hours fearing that the nanny would come back and punish him for being the one that reported. This was reported by a neighbour's old mother who was living in the same neighbourhood.
2006-10-04 06:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by jackbauer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son did the same thing when he started school. I went and talked to the guidance counselor in school to get some ideas on why he was doing it and how to stop it. She said alot of it could be separation anxiety. If this is her first time being away from you then she could be feeling the same thing. It's not saying much that the only thing that the school will do is throw her out. Talk to your guidance counselor at school and your family doctor they should be able to help. Good luck! My son is doing alot better now it just took awhile. I had to reassure him that I'd be home when he got back and make sure he was first on the bus.
2006-10-04 09:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my kid did it last year, it was a major battle everyday to get him to go ....... they said he was not doing things the other kids were doing not following directions ect.. ... I was shocked by this because my son is really good and mellow , I found out by going to the class a few times what the problem was ,, it was because the teacher was a B i tch and didnt bother to treat the kids equally nor did she make the kids listen to her , if a kid was acting up she would let them just sit and play alone in the back of the room , I went to his class and there were ten kids not particapating in the daily activities ......so he learned that to avoid the Bitchy teacher he could whine to me and not go or just act up as soon as he got there and he didnt have to ''do school'' .....now he is in kindergarten with a wonderful teacher, he has done so well and the teacher has called several times to let my wife and I know what a joy he is to have in the classroom...... the school probally sucks so she dont wanna go , dont let them pigeon hole your kid into being labled as a problem kid that needs meds, the preschool teacher told the kindergarten teacher that my son was a ''problem'' , now the kindergarten teacher is learly of the preschool teacher as she sees what my son is capable of ......it is all about how the teacher treats your daughter , kids at that age have different needs and it take a good teacher to get the best out of every kid .......screw that school and find a different one ........any school that says your kid needs meds is one i would be real leary of .....she is kicking and screaming for REASON , maybe they are abusing your kid or something ....I would pull her out and find a school that wants to see your child suceed not be a medicated zombie so there job is easier .......
2006-10-04 06:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my next door neighbor's grandson did the same thing when he was 7. He will kick, scream, cry, make himself throw up; the works. Turned out he was being bullied in school; he was getting beat every day by one of his classmates and he was afraid to tell anyone.
Maybe this is happening to your child.
2006-10-04 06:12:44 · answer #6 · answered by karma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's having a reaction to the drug. Go to Yahoo Search and type: what is adderall. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 06:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont quite understand your ??.....is she afraid to go to school....afraid to leave you....and then the info about the adderall ...dont give without a dr instructions and do not give child someone elses meds.....
as far as the school or the teacher is there any other parents that are having the same experience with their children...if so talk to the teacher and to the principal of the school....no child should be afraid to go to school
also is this your childs first experience with school.???.....if so may be you should let her know that its ok to be afraid but its not ok to kick and scream....she needs to talk to you about why and what is making her afraid....and most of all YOU need to show HER that YOU are not afraid for her to go to school......
2006-10-04 06:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by TchrzPt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could also be anxiety separation. She may feel like you are not coming back. Does she do this when you leave her elsewhere? Try doing this with a family member, and then with a trusted friend/neighbor. If so, this could be it. Does she have any friends/neighbors she is in class with? Try asking them when she's not around to see if there is something else going on.
2006-10-04 06:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by Jurch69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son now 7 was giving us problems at 5 about school. It turns out there was a problem with the teacher, some personalities don't mix. We swapped teachers and problem solved, have not had a problem since.
2006-10-04 06:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by angie g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋