Girl who is 3 years older than me a she has 2 kids and her babies-daddy is in jail. I think that she likes me but i don't want to give my hope up. Do i go for her?
2006-10-04 05:55:25 · 24 answers · asked by Jorgio 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
babies daddy is in jail for drugs and abuse to her
2006-10-04 06:03:17 · update #1
This question is one that only you can answer yourself.You just have to remember that with a woman who has kids, there comes a commitment not only to her, but to her kids as well. Extra baggage. If you feel as if you are ready to be a daddy to her two kids, and handle any situation that her kids daddy may throw your way, than I suggest to go for it. But if you want this relationship I hope you will be in it for the long haul, and not just for a short period of time. She has kids and women with kids are looking for someone who can handle any situation. You don't just have to make her happy, but her two kids all so. They are a package deal. So if you are ready to handle her, the kids, and maybe the kids daddy, than go for it. But if you don't think you could handle it, than I suggest to move on to someone who doesn't have any kids. This is my advice, you don't have to listen to it, but it comes from experiance.
2006-10-04 06:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by danielle m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can manage 2 kids and you like her and you can get lost when the daddy gets out of jail then GO FOR IT!!!
2006-10-04 05:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't go for her. There are too many strings attached. What's going to happen when the baby's dad get out of jail. There's a lot of fish in the sea, without so much to deal with.
2006-10-04 06:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Storm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1..What is the baby's daddy in jail for?
2006-10-04 05:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by BooSha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
too many problems once babies-daddy gets out of jail
2006-10-04 05:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by sassy2sloppy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope because as soon as babies daddy gets out of jail you will be kicked to the curb she will just use you until then...
2006-10-04 05:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no- like alot of people already said it will cause alot of drama- she is just trying to find someone as a replacement until he gets out of jail- go for someone closer to ur age
2006-10-04 05:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by cayla_152 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she's looking for a replacement until he gets out of jail....this will only create drama and hurt....stay away....you don't need that burden.
2006-10-04 05:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. If her kids father is in prison, she must be a bit trashy and why do you want to take on someone elses kids??
Find someone a bit more classy, with no kids, although age doesn't matter!
2006-10-04 06:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by Kate 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no!shes to old.theres younger and the better out there.
plus when the babies daddy gets out there will be drama between yall
2006-10-04 06:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by muzzy_buzzer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋